Tend: Couples & Relationship
Learn How Your Partner Loves
Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPad. Not verified for macOS.
Your closest relationships get the worst of your attention. Not because you don't care. Tend helps new parents, long-distance couples, and everyone in between stay close.
Built on 40 years of relationship research from the Gottman Institute, Tend learns the rhythm of your relationships and sends you a gentle nudge at exactly the right moment — with exactly the right thing to say or do.
Not reminders. Not generic tips. Nudges that sound like the best version of you:
"It's been 8 days since you and Sarah talked. She values words of affirmation — a quick voice note would make her week."
"Your mom mentioned her garden last call. Ask how the tomatoes are doing."
DAILY PULSE CHECKS
One question. You both answer. Then reveal together. A 30-second ritual that turns "how was your day?" into something real.
WARMTH SIGNALS
Send a quiet "thinking of you," "I need space," or "I'm proud of you" — for when a text feels like too much or not enough.
GAMES THAT SPARK REAL CONVERSATION
Three multiplayer games — Deeper, Guess Who Said It, and Hot Seat — that turn screen time into genuine connection. 600+ questions across every level of closeness.
AI-GUIDED CONVERSATIONS
For the hard moments. Grounded in Nonviolent Communication and Emotionally Focused Therapy. Not a replacement for a therapist — a bridge for when something needs to be said and you don't know how.
Tend works for every relationship that matters: partners, parents, best friends, siblings. Because the people closest to you deserve more than autopilot.
Start tending.
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Bug fixes and improvements:
• Fixed crash on launch for some users
• Improved notification delivery timing
• Memory timeline now shows partner reactions and responses
• Warmth signals show delivery confirmation
• Smoother onboarding experience
• Performance and stability improvements
The developer, Roozbeh Nia, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
- Contact Info
- Contacts
- Diagnostics
Accessibility
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Information
- Seller
- Roozbeh Nia
- Size
- 33.6 MB
- Category
- Lifestyle
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 18.0 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 18.0 or later. - iPad
Requires iPadOS 18.0 or later. - Mac
Requires macOS 15.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
18+
- 18+
- Contains
Messaging and Chat
User-Generated Content
Health or Wellness Topics
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- Tend Therapy $49.99
- Tend Therapy Annual $137.99
- Premium $191.99
- Premium $19.99
- Plus $95.99
- Plus $9.99
- Copyright
- © 2026 Nias LLC