Aftr You

Breakup recovery, your pace

Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPad. Not verified for macOS.

For the nights you almost text them. Aftr counts your no contact, talks you down at 2am, and helps you stay yourself if you're still in contact. Aftr You is the gentle, psychology-backed companion for getting through a breakup on your own terms, at your own pace. Whether it happened yesterday or months ago, Aftr You meets you exactly where you are with daily insights, nervous system regulation tools, and guided self-reflection. No toxic positivity, no timelines, no pressure. DAILY SUPPORT • A personalized Day X Insight based on where you are in your healing • Journal prompts that help you process without overthinking • Stage-aware guidance that adapts as you move through grief CRISIS TOOLS • "I want to reach out" instant intervention when the urge hits • 90-second breathing exercises to calm your nervous system • Emotion timer to ride the wave instead of reacting HEALING TOOLS • Rewrite the Memory: transform painful moments • Unsent Text: say what you need to without sending it • Release Rituals: burn, wash away, or let go symbolically • Body check-ins and somatic exercises UNDERSTAND YOUR PATTERNS • Attachment style insights • Relationship pattern recognition • Red flags you ignored, and green flags to look for next • "Why You Go Back": honest, compassionate clarity YOUR SPACE • Vision board for your future self • Strengths journal to remember who you are • No-contact day counter with milestone celebrations • Curated playlists and calming sounds Built with real psychology: attachment theory, nervous system science, and trauma-informed care, wrapped in a calm, beautiful interface that feels like a deep breath. FREE FEATURES Daily insight, breathing tool, and emergency "reach out" support, always free. AFTR YOU PREMIUM Unlock the full experience with a free trial: • Monthly: $4.99/mo (3-day free trial) • Annual: $29.99/yr (7-day free trial), save 50% Subscriptions auto-renew unless canceled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Manage subscriptions in your Apple ID settings. Privacy Policy: https://aftryou.app/privacy Terms of Service: https://aftryou.app/terms

  • 5.0
    out of 5
    4 Ratings

This update makes Aftr fit what you're actually here for. When you sign up, Aftr now asks what you need: hold your no contact, stay yourself while you're still talking to them, or just heal at your own pace. New: • On Your Terms, for when you're back in contact. Set your terms before you talk to them, check in with yourself after, and keep count of every time you stayed true. • Keep Your Power, for the moments you want to chase. • What Am I Trading, for when you're talking yourself into accepting less. • Park a message you want to send. Aftr holds it and brings it back in the morning, when you can decide with a clearer head. • Talk It Out now featured on Tools. • If you break no contact, there's something to land on instead of a counter back at day one. • Your no-contact timeline, so starting again never erases what you already did. • Your two daily rituals now sit together on the home screen: your check-in, and today's card. • A quieter home screen overall, with less on it and more room to breathe.

The developer, Victoria Farias, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .

  • Data Linked to You

    The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:

    • Contact Info
    • User Content
    • Identifiers
    • Usage Data

Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More

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Seller
  • Victoria Farias
Size
  • 16.4 MB
Category
  • Health & Fitness
Compatibility
Requires iOS 15.0 or later.
  • iPhone
    Requires iOS 15.0 or later.
  • iPad
    Requires iPadOS 15.0 or later.
  • iPod touch
    Requires iOS 15.0 or later.
  • Mac
    Requires macOS 12.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.
  • Apple Vision
    Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
Languages
  • English
Age Rating
13+
  • 13+
  • Infrequent
    Profanity or Crude Humor
    Mature or Suggestive Themes
    Alcohol, Tobacco, Drug Use or References

    Contains
    User-Generated Content
    Health or Wellness Topics
In-App Purchases
Yes
  • aftr you Premium $4.99
  • aftr you Premium $29.99
Copyright
  • © 2026 Victoria Farias