Aftr You: Breakup Recovery
Heartbreak help & no contact
Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPad. Not verified for macOS.
New: your first 14 days. One small step a day, picked from what's hardest for you right now.
Aftr You is a calm, psychology-based companion for getting through a breakup on your own terms, at your own pace.
Whether it happened yesterday or months ago, Aftr meets you where you are, with a plan for your first two weeks, tools for the hard moments, and insights built around your story. No toxic positivity, no timelines, no pressure.
YOUR FIRST 14 DAYS
Tell us what's hardest right now: wanting to reach out, not being able to stop thinking about them, feeling numb, or not knowing who you are without them. You'll get one small step a day for two weeks, starting with the one that fits. Miss a day and nothing resets.
FOR THE MOMENT YOU ALMOST TEXT THEM
• "I want to reach out": a 15-minute urge timer with steps to help you wait it out
• Unsent Text: write everything you want to say, and never send it
• Breathing and grounding to steady your body
• Emotion Timer: ride the wave instead of reacting
EVERY DAY
• A no contact counter with milestones
• "How's today?": one tap opens one thing to do for the day you're having
• A daily insight written for your stage and the day you're on
• Talk It Out: type what's on your mind, any time of night, and get a gentle reply
• Journal prompts for where you are, or a blank page
TOOLS FOR THE HARD DAYS
• Rewrite the Memory: tell the whole story, not just the good part
• Trigger Map: name the songs, places and days that set it off
• Body Check-In and Shake It Out
• Release Rituals: let go in a way you can see
• Healing sounds and playlists
UNDERSTAND YOUR PATTERNS
• Attachment style and breakup style quizzes
• "Why You Go Back": honest, compassionate clarity about the pull
• How they hooked you: love bombing, future faking, hot and cold
• Red flags you can spot next time, and what you won't accept again
YOUR NEXT CHAPTER
• What I Bring: remember what was always yours
• Vision Board and letters to your future self
• Insights that grow with you, from the first weeks to a year and beyond
Built on attachment theory, nervous system science and trauma-informed care.
INCLUDED FREE
Your first 14 days, the "I want to reach out" urge tool, breathing, and your daily insight.
AFTR YOU PREMIUM
Unlock every tool, quiz and insight with a free trial:
• Monthly: $4.99/month with a 3-day free trial
• Annual: $29.99/year with a 7-day free trial, save 50%
Payment is charged to your Apple ID when you confirm the purchase after the trial. Subscriptions renew automatically unless canceled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Manage or cancel any time in your Apple ID settings.
Aftr You is a self-help app and isn't a replacement for therapy or medical care. If you are in crisis, please contact local emergency services.
Privacy Policy: https://aftryou.app/privacy
Terms of Service: https://aftryou.app/terms
Your first 14 days
Tell us what's hardest right now and get one small step a day for two weeks, picked for you. Every step is included, no subscription needed.
Also in this update
• Deep Patterns insights rewritten to be clearer and more personal, and more of them now match your quiz answers
• "How's today?" on Home opens one thing to do for the day you're having.
• Tools now close back to where you started
The developer, Victoria Farias, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
- Contact Info
- User Content
- Identifiers
- Usage Data
Accessibility
The developer has not yet indicated which accessibility features this app supports. Learn More
Information
- Seller
- Victoria Farias
- Size
- 16.4 MB
- Category
- Health & Fitness
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 15.0 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 15.0 or later. - iPad
Requires iPadOS 15.0 or later. - iPod touch
Requires iOS 15.0 or later. - Mac
Requires macOS 12.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later. - Apple Vision
Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
13+
- 13+
- Infrequent
Profanity or Crude Humor
Mature or Suggestive Themes
Alcohol, Tobacco, Drug Use or References
Contains
User-Generated Content
Health or Wellness Topics
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- aftr you Premium $4.99
- aftr you Premium $29.99
- Copyright
- © 2026 Victoria Farias
