First Date: Dating Journal
Questions, Red Flags & Safety
Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPad. Not verified for macOS.
New: questions for tonight's date, guided reflections after it, and month-by-month trends. Unlock Pro once - no subscription, nothing to cancel.
First Date is a private journal for your dating life - not a dating app. Use it alongside the dating apps you already have, or for people you meet in real life. Keep track of who you're talking to, walk into each date with a few good questions, get home safely, and write down how it really went while it's fresh.
BEFORE THE DATE
- Three questions for tonight, chosen for what you're looking for (casual, long-term, marriage or just exploring) and for the interests you share. Shuffle for another set.
- Write a one-line intention ("stay curious, home by ten"). Your reflection asks how it went.
- Plan the venue with Apple Maps details and walking-time context.
- Conversation prompts in five tones: playful, curious, direct, vulnerable and witty.
DURING THE DATE
- Safety check-ins: reminders ask if you're home safe. If you don't confirm, a second reminder opens a ready-to-send text to a contact you chose, with the venue. You press send.
- A fake incoming call when you need an easy way out, with the caller name you pick.
- An offline date-safety guide that works with no signal.
AFTER THE DATE
- Guided reflection: questions that get past "it was fine", a star rating, how you felt on the way home, and whether you'd see them again.
- What felt good and what gave you pause, as tags.
- Voice memos with on-device transcripts.
- A heads-up when someone has gone quiet, on a threshold you choose.
PATTERNS
- Quick stats across your own history: dates per person, how long you talk before meeting, how often you leave feeling like yourself.
- With Pro: filters by app, venue, pacing, chemistry, follow-up and how you left; month-by-month trends; and written patterns once 10 people are logged.
PRIVATE BY DESIGN
Everything you save stays in the app on your iPhone or iPad. There is no account, no server and no sync, so your journal never leaves your device. Voice memos are transcribed on the device. Venue search uses Apple Maps. No analytics or ad SDKs. Add a Face ID lock whenever you like.
FIRST DATE PRO - ONE PAYMENT, NO SUBSCRIPTION
The journal holds your first 5 people. First Date Pro is a single Lifetime purchase: it lifts that limit and adds deeper filters, month-by-month trends and written patterns. It never renews. Safety check-ins, the fake call, voice memos with transcripts, guided reflection, date-night questions, the Face ID lock, screenshot import and conversation prompts stay in the free journal.
NOT A DATING APP
First Date does not match you with anyone, host a profile, show a feed or message anyone for you.
ABOUT SAFETY
Check-ins remind you and pre-fill a message that you send yourself. First Date does not contact emergency services, does not share your live location and is not a monitoring service. If you are in danger, call your local emergency number.
Privacy Policy: https://firstdate.keenshift.ai/privacy
Terms of Use (EULA): https://firstdate.keenshift.ai/terms
Support: https://firstdate.keenshift.ai/support
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- Before you go: three questions for tonight, picked for what you're looking for, plus a one-line intention.
- Guided reflection: questions that get past "it was fine", how you felt on the way home, and whether you'd see them again.
- Month by month (Pro): how many dates you went on, how they rated, and how often you came home feeling like yourself.
- Lock your journal with Face ID.
- First Date Pro is now one payment - no subscription. Restore it any time from Settings.
- Fixes: check-in reminders now open the right date, pasted bios are read for interests, and rows respond anywhere you tap on iPad.
The developer, Mitaanshu Agarwal, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Not Collected
The developer does not collect any data from this app.
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Information
- Seller
- Mitaanshu Agarwal
- Size
- 5.4 MB
- Category
- Lifestyle
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 18.0 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 18.0 or later. - iPad
Requires iPadOS 18.0 or later. - Mac
Requires macOS 15.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later. - Apple Vision
Requires visionOS 2.0 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
13+
- 13+
- Infrequent
Mature or Suggestive Themes
Alcohol, Tobacco, Drug Use or References
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- First Date Pro Yearly $19.99
- First Date Pro Monthly $2.99
- First Date Pro Lifetime $9.99
- Copyright
- © 2026 KeenShift