Cherished is a private field guide to the person you love. One small prompt a day. A place to remember what they said. Gift ideas that actually fit them. A weekly check-in that asks the questions that matter, not the ones a quiz would. Built for the long stretches between anniversaries and birthdays, when the work of staying close happens in small, repeatable ways.
— WHAT YOU GET —
- A daily nudge. One prompt each morning — sometimes an action, sometimes a question to ask them, sometimes a quiet thing to notice. Specific to their love language. Easy to actually do.
- A private journal. The kind of small details a good partner doesn't forget. Their dentist appointment. The book they mentioned wanting. The way they take their coffee. Searchable. Yours alone.
- Key facts. The stuff you always need at the worst possible moment — ring size, shoe size, favorite flower, perfume, coffee order. Save once, retrieve forever.
- Important dates. Anniversaries, birthdays, the day you met. With gentle warnings as they approach so nothing gets forgotten.
- Gift ideas. A running list, personalized to what you know about them. One-tap Amazon search when you're ready to buy.
- Weekly check-in. Once a week, on the day you choose: rate the week, rate your own effort, note what went well and what didn't, set a goal for the week ahead. Honest, brief, just for you. A trend line so you can see how things are actually going over time.
- When things feel off. A quiet button in the header, always one tap away. Specific, situational guidance for after a fight, a forgotten anniversary, or a stretch that just feels distant.
— THE PHILOSOPHY —
Cherished isn't a relationship test. There's no score, no leaderboard, no "couples therapy in your pocket." It's a private notebook with a daily nudge — the kind of intentional attention that good partners give without thinking, made just a little easier to keep up. Your data stays on your device. Cherished doesn't share, sell, or analyze anything you write. The journal is yours; we just hand you the pen.
— CHERISHED PLUS —
Unlimited daily refreshes when a prompt doesn't quite land. One-tap Amazon search on gift ideas. The full journal (every "what you've learned" answer kept and searchable). Partner pairing (coming soon).
— FOR WHO —
For people in committed relationships who want a small, quiet practice of paying attention. Not a fix for a relationship in trouble. A reinforcement for one you want to keep tending.
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This app has helped me in two ways. First it has helped me narrow down what I can do to bring the biggest impact to my wife. Less guessing on what i should do to show how much I care. And it has helped me realize why other things in the past didn’t resonate. The other thing is that this app helps me keep my relationship in focus. Work and life get busy. This app helps me make sure I don’t forget to spend time doing things to keep the relationship going. Highly recommend if you don’t know what kind of things your spouse will respond to, or if you have a hard time remember to do things for your relationship.
Developer Response
Glad to hear the app is helping you in your relationship. Thanks for the review!
a path to their love language
graciemay333
The Cherished app has been such a meaningful addition to our marriage. My husband and I have very different love languages, and it's easy to unintentionally show love in the way I prefer instead of the way he receives it. This app gives me thoughtful reminders and practical ideas that help me connect with him in ways that are meaningful to him. It's helped me be more intentional, strengthened our communication, and made it easier to prioritize our relationship, even during busy seasons.
Developer Response
This is the exact initial reason I built it, glad to see it is worth it! Thanks for leaving me a review!
Awesome!
Nee Nee 2
This app is a great helpful tool in the chaos and busy life moments with nudges and reminders to maintain a strong relationship with your partner. The variety options and aspects make it versatile and very user-friendly. I especially like the daily “tangible actions” and weekly “check ins” as well as cool features like the “gifts” section. Can’t wait to use the partner feature once that is added!
Developer Response
Thank you for taking the time to review the app! Look out for v2 for the partner features!
Incredible
JDS0217
This is app has been nothing but incredible. It has helped me focus on the little things in my relationship that sometimes may have been overlooked with life and work. It’s serves as an important reminder that the little gestures and the little things that you do for your partner help keep a long lasting loving relationship.
Developer Response
Thanks for your review! Be on the lookout for the next big version, v3 coming soon!!
- Hit a streak or answer milestone? Now you can share it, a simple card you can post or send. No partner details included, just the milestone.
- Panic Mode works through its full set of suggestions before repeating one. (Cherished Plus)
- Weekly check-ins now show how this month compares to last, right where you already track them.
- The Gift tab gives you a heads up when an important date is approaching, with a few ideas ready to go.
Everything still stays on your device. Always has.
Version 3.2
The developer, Efrain Orsini Jr, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Not Collected
The developer does not collect any data from this app.
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Information
Seller
Efrain Orsini Jr
Size
3.6 MB
Category
Lifestyle
Compatibility
Requires iOS 15.0 or later.
iPhone Requires iOS 15.0 or later.
iPad Requires iPadOS 15.0 or later.
iPod touch Requires iOS 15.0 or later.
Mac Requires macOS 12.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.
