The Pause: Arrive on Purpose

One breath is enough.

Only for iPhone

Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPhone. Not verified for macOS.

iPhone

No blocking. No guilt. No streaks to break. One calm breath before the apps that pull you in - then you choose. Totally free to start, one doorway included. One calm breath before the apps that pull you in...that's it. Most app opens aren't decisions. You reach for Instagram, TikTok, or whatever app has its hooks in you (at least, it feels like hooks!), and you're scrolling before you've even noticed you picked up your phone. The Pause meets you right there, at the doorway, with a single breath...then hands the choice back to you. WHAT IT DOES Choose an app you tend to open on autopilot. The next time you tap it, The Pause opens first with one slow breath. When it's done, you choose to continue in. Nothing is blocked. Nothing is timed out. You are always, always able to go on. WHAT IT DOESN'T DO No screen time limits. No lockouts. No guilt-trip notifications about how many hours you "wasted." No streaks to keep, and none to break. The Pause isn't trying to shame you out of using your phone...it's trying to make sure you meant to. HOW IT WORKS The doorway runs through Apple Shortcuts, not Screen Time permissions. That means The Pause never asks to see what you do in your other apps, never monitors your usage, and never collects data about your habits elsewhere on your phone. It only ever knows the moment an app is about to open - nothing more. Setup takes about two minutes per app, and The Pause walks you through every step. A CALM THAT ADDS UP Every breath you take - whether it's a quick pause at a doorway or a few minutes to unwind before bed - adds to a simple, honest count: arrivals, and minutes of calm. No streaks to protect, no numbers designed to make you feel bad. Just a quiet record that you showed up for yourself. If you'd like, you can also see how many other people paused today, right alongside you. WORKS WITH Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, X, Facebook, Snapchat, and Reddit - with more on the way! Free to start, with one app's doorway included. The Pause Afterglow is a one-time unlock (never a subscription) for every doorway plus a couple of additional calm themes - priced as "pay what you can," because a moment of awareness shouldn't be out of reach. The Pause requires an iPhone on iOS 26 for the doorway. The standalone breath works on earlier versions too. Made by one person who kept opening Instagram without ever deciding to, and built the smallest thing that might help. Enjoy!

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Seller
Todd Toso
Size
11.2 MB
Category
Health & Fitness
Compatibility
Requires iOS 17.0 or later.
  • iPhone
    Requires iOS 17.0 or later.
  • Mac
    Requires macOS 14.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.
  • Apple Vision
    Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
Languages
English
Age Rating
4+
In-App Purchases
Yes
  • Afterglow — Generous $39.99
  • Afterglow — Supporter $19.99
  • Afterglow — Fair $9.99
  • Afterglow — Pay What You Can $2.99
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