Not a score. A new way of seeing your relationship.
Anthea is a relationship insight app developed by couples therapists. It doesn't rate your relationship in percentages or compare you with your partner — no points, no badges, no streaks. It makes visible the emotional patterns that slip by in everyday life.
TWO MINUTES A DAY
Each day you and your partner answer a few short questions, on your own. Nothing opens until you've both finished, so your answers never sway each other.
TODAY'S REFLECTION
When you finish the five questions, an analysis of your day opens, written for you; today's harmony shows where your feelings stood on the good side.
THE REFLECTION BETWEEN YOU
When you've both answered, a shared reflection opens: how you each lived the same day, where you meet, where you differ, and one small idea for tonight. Today's harmony shows where you stood in the same place.
THE WEEK'S READING
On day seven, the whole week becomes a reading written for your story: your strengths, the patterns that keep returning, the week's emotional signals and one small step for the week ahead. Warm, everyday language — no clinical jargon.
YOUR FIRST READING
A ten-question getting-to-know-you set draws a starting portrait of how you experience your relationship, and shapes the language of every reading that follows.
SIX PSYCHOLOGICAL FRAMEWORKS
More than 1,800 questions drawn from Gottman couples therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, attachment theory, Sternberg's triangular theory of love, love languages and positive psychology.
ON YOUR OWN, TOO
Your partner hasn't joined yet? Use Anthea on your own and invite them with a code or QR whenever you're ready. You can even answer from your Apple Watch.
FOR EVERYONE
Fully usable with VoiceOver and Voice Control, and readable at the largest text sizes. It follows your Reduce Motion and contrast settings.
ONE SUBSCRIBES, BOTH GET PREMIUM
Daily questions and today's harmony are free. Written reflections, your First Reading and weekly readings are Premium, and one partner's subscription covers you both. 3-day free trial; cancel anytime in the App Store.
Anthea is not a therapy service; it does not diagnose or treat. Its name comes from Hera's epithet meaning "flowers and marriage": relationships aren't problems solved in a moment, but living things that grow over time.
Questions and ideas: anthea@vonyela.com
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Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/
A Great Tool for Understanding and Strengthening Your Relationship
Melihbadir
I’ve been really impressed with Anthea. The insights and analysis about our relationship feel surprisingly consistent and accurate, and the app has helped us notice patterns and dynamics that we weren’t fully aware of before. What I appreciate most is that it doesn’t just help me understand our relationship better, it also encourages me to reflect on myself and become more aware of my own feelings and behaviors. Some of the questions bring out emotions and thoughts that we may not have been able to recognize or express on our own. It has also made us realize how easy it is to get caught up in everyday life and unintentionally neglect each other and our relationship. It creates conversations that we probably wouldn’t have had otherwise and helps us reconnect on a deeper level. We genuinely feel that our relationship has improved since we started using Anthea. It’s been a great tool for communication, self-reflection, and understanding each other better. Highly recommended for couples who want to be more intentional about their relationship.
Insightful ✨
Selin Badir
I loved how comprehensive and insightful the app’s analysis was, and how accurate and helpful its guidance felt. It gave my partner and me valuable insights into our relationship and helped us understand our dynamic better.🤍
Developer Response
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughtful feedback. As the Anthea team, we strive to understand modern relationships through a scientifically grounded framework and turn that knowledge into meaningful, practical insights for couples. We’re truly glad to hear that Anthea helped you and your partner better understand your relationship dynamic. Your feedback means a great deal to us. 🤍
Anthea
imftrx1245
I love this application !!!!!!!!!!
A smoother start and a more reliable membership.
• When you unlock Premium, redeem a code, or your partner's membership is shared with you, locks lift right away — no need to reopen the app.
• When your partner joins with your invite code, Today and Analysis switch to your shared journey right away.
• Sign-up keeps moving even on a weak connection.
• Notification permission is now asked on the welcome card, when the moment comes.
• Small fixes and improvements.
Version 1.2.1
The developer, Sehmus Nas, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
Purchases
Contact Info
User Content
Identifiers
Usage Data
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
Diagnostics
Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More
The developer indicated that this app supports the following accessibility features. Learn More
Supported Features
VoiceOver
Voice Control
Larger Text
Dark Interface
Differentiate Without Color Alone
Sufficient Contrast
Reduced Motion
Information
Seller
Sehmus Nas
Size
89.5 MB
Category
Health & Fitness
Compatibility
Requires iOS 18.6 or later.
iPhone Requires iOS 18.6 or later.
Mac Requires macOS 15.6 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.