IRL: Real-Life Connections

The relationships that matter

Only for iPhone

Free · Designed for iPhone. Not verified for macOS.

iPhone

Build real social capital: the relationships that open doors, and the friendships that last. Host dinners, get warm intros, and plan it all with your ai concierge IRL is a relationship OS: the home for every relationship worth keeping in your life, personal and professional. Every person who enters your life opens doors: to ideas, opportunities, collaborators, friendships, and moments you cannot yet imagine. And every person you let quietly slip away closes doors you will never even know were there. There are 150 to 250 people who could genuinely enrich your life. Almost no one keeps up with that many. Life is busy, and we have never had a system to nurture our relationships, so the people we care about slip through the cracks. Overwhelmed, we shrink our world down to the few right in front of us. Our circle gets smaller, and relationships that could have gone somewhere never do. Not because we stopped caring, but because we never had the tools to hold on. We are more connected than ever, and lonelier than ever. We have thousands of followers and struggle to find someone to call. IRL is the system that finally changes that. IRL is invite-only, and every member is ID verified, so you are always meeting real, accountable people. MEET THE RIGHT PEOPLE - Tell IRL who you would like to meet and get thoughtful matches from beyond your circle: friends of friends and others across the verified community. - Ask a mutual connection for a warm introduction to someone you would like to know. - Introduce two people you believe should meet. SEE THEM IN REAL LIFE - Host a table for coffee, breakfast, lunch, or dinner. - Set up a simple one-on-one, or a non-food hangout like a walk or a workout. - Tag @irl in any chat and it books the coffee or plans the gathering for you, with RSVPs and calendar invites handled automatically. KEEP THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER CLOSE - Organize your relationships into circles, from new to inner circle. - Get a gentle nudge when it has been too long since you reached out. - Remember birthdays and the details, and always follow up. BUILT ON TRUST - Invite-only membership. - 100 percent ID verification. - You control what you share and with whom. Block and report tools are always one tap away. IRL is not a social feed and not a cold networking tool. It is where you tend the relationships that shape your life, and make room for the ones that could. Download IRL and start building the relationships that matter.

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Set up an event just by talking. Tell the IRL Concierge what you have in mind, in the app or on WhatsApp, and it builds the event with you: the title, date, venue, tickets and cover photo. You check it and publish. A much smarter concierge. It knows your plans and your people. Ask who is coming on Friday, find something to do this week, request a seat at the right ticket price, ask for an introduction, or get a friend’s contact details when they have chosen to share them, all from one message. Paid tickets. Hosts can sell tickets with several tiers and early-bird deadlines. Guests pay securely by card and get their door code, and on iPhone a pass in Apple Wallet. Upgrade on attendee feedback and recommendations for organizers and community builders. The morning after, guests give honest, anonymous feedback in their own words, by voice or by typing. Organizers get a dashboard of what worked, what to fix, who people want to meet next, and the best day and time for the next one. Match the room. During an event the host taps once and every checked-in guest is paired with someone new to meet, round after round. Your seat. Three hours before a dinner starts, see your table, who sits beside you, and what you have in common. Unlisted, your network shield. Stay connected to someone without passing them on. IRL never suggests or introduces them to your friends through you, and they do not appear in your connection list when others look. Nothing tells them. Joining is simpler. Sign up with your email, Apple or Google, no invite code needed. A code still connects you to the friend who invited you. Setup starts with your city and your country code, both suggested from your phone. WhatsApp from day one. Link WhatsApp to the IRL Concierge in one tap during setup. Dinner invites. Once you accept a seat, you can invite a friend of your own, up to three steps from the host. Memories. Share photos from a night with the people you were with, in the night’s album, on your profile, or both. IRL points for hosting, introductions both people accept, feedback, bringing in a friend who verifies, and checking in at the door. Sharing to Instagram, redesigned, with new event and Memory cards for Stories and posts. Plus a calendar feed with the events you host, grouped notifications, and many smaller fixes.

The developer, In Real Life (Thailand) Company Limited, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .

  • Data Linked to You

    The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:

    • Location
    • Contact Info
    • User Content
    • Identifiers
    • Usage Data
    • Sensitive Info
    • Diagnostics

Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More

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Seller
IN REAL LIFE (THAILAND) COMPANY LIMITED
Size
47.7 MB
Category
Social Networking
Compatibility
Requires iOS 15.1 or later.
  • iPhone
    Requires iOS 15.1 or later.
  • iPod touch
    Requires iOS 15.1 or later.
  • Mac
    Requires macOS 12.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.
  • Apple Vision
    Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
Languages
English
Age Rating
18+
Copyright
© 2026 In Real Life (Thailand) Company Limited