UnFight: Couples & Marriage
Find the words after a fight
Only for iPhone
Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPhone. Not verified for macOS.
iPhone
Pause, find the words you want to say, and decide what happens next — privately, on your iPhone. Calm Down is always free.
Arguments happen. UnFight gives you a private place to pause, find clearer words and decide what to do next.
Open it and answer one question: What would help right now?
CALM THE MOMENT
A quick pause, a longer guided pause, or simple grounding if breathing exercises aren’t your thing. Sound is off by default; Reduce Motion is supported. Always free, always unlimited.
TAKE A BREAK
An optional break timer — 5, 20 or 30 minutes, custom, or no timer at all — with an optional private reminder and an editable message you can send if you choose: “I want to continue this when I can give it my full attention. I’d like to take a break first.” Nothing is ever sent for you.
FIND YOUR WORDS
Say It Right covers nine situations: needing a break, feeling misunderstood, apologizing, asking for help, setting a boundary, revisiting something, not being ready to talk, saying thank you and raising a concern. Answer a few questions and get an editable Brief, Gentle or Direct draft. Drafts keep your meaning — a boundary stays a boundary. Copy, save, rewrite or discard. Nothing is saved unless you tap Save.
WORK THROUGH A CONVERSATION
The RESET Method is five small stages at your own pace, with no countdown: Regulate, Explain, State, Establish, Track. Skip any step, save a draft or stop at any point. If you choose “I don’t feel safe continuing,” UnFight stops the ordinary flow and shows safety resources instead.
CHOOSE A CLEAR NEXT STEP
Choose a voluntary agreement, a follow-up conversation, a personal action, a clear boundary, more time, professional support — or no further action.
REVISIT IT LATER
Optional follow-ups with honest answers: it helped, it partly helped, we haven’t tried it yet, we chose a different approach, we need more time, or I don’t want to continue this plan. No scores. No winners.
KEEP AGREEMENTS CLEAR
A private proposal stays a proposal until you’ve both actually said yes. Pause, complete or cancel anytime — agreements aren’t contracts.
MAKE ROOM FOR A WEEKLY CHECK-IN
One appreciation, one topic, one practical step, one thing to look forward to. Missing a week isn’t a failure.
PARTNER MODE, WITH CONSENT
Optional. Both people opt in and take turns on one phone. Nobody’s answers are shown unless the person who wrote them says yes.
KEEP YOUR THOUGHTS UNDER YOUR CONTROL
Your writing is stored on your iPhone, not on our servers. No account, no analytics or advertising SDKs. Optional Face ID lock, hidden app-switcher previews, notifications that never mention what you wrote, and export or delete everything from Settings. Your iPhone’s own backups may include app data.
FREE AND PREMIUM
Free: Calm Down, the break timer, safety resources, Say It Right (Brief, Gentle, Direct), your saved history and one guided session a week.
Premium: unlimited guided RESET and Partner sessions, the Detailed writing style, unlimited agreements with check-in history, and summaries of topics that come up again. Your saved records stay yours if Premium ends.
UnFight Premium is available as a monthly or annual auto-renewable subscription, or a one-time lifetime purchase. Eligible customers may receive a free trial on the annual plan; the app shows the exact trial length and price before you buy. Payment is charged to your Apple Account at confirmation of purchase. Subscriptions renew automatically unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Manage or cancel anytime in Settings > Apple Account > Subscriptions. Any unused portion of a free trial is forfeited when a subscription is purchased.
UnFight is a self-guided communication tool. It is not therapy, counseling, medical care, legal advice or emergency assistance, and it does not diagnose anyone or score your relationship. If you are in danger, call 911 or your local emergency number.
Support: https://unfight-arguments.rork.app/support.html
Privacy: https://unfight-arguments.rork.app/privacy.html
Terms of Use: https://unfight-arguments.rork.app/terms.html
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A redesigned UnFight, built around one question: What would help right now?
• New home with three clear paths: I need a moment, I need to find my words, I want to work through something
• Calm Down now has Quick Pause, Guided Pause and a Take a Break timer — breathing optional, sound off by default
• Say It Right: 9 situations, Brief/Gentle/Direct drafts, saved messages you choose to keep
• RESET works at your own pace, with skip, save draft and exit on every step, plus new next-step and follow-up choices
• Partner Mode now requires both people to opt in and approve before any answers are shown
• Agreements distinguish private proposals from things you both agreed to
• Updated safety resources for the US and Canada
• Hidden app-switcher previews and a clearer, simpler upgrade screen
The developer, James Gray, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Not Collected
The developer does not collect any data from this app.
Accessibility
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Information
- Seller
- James Gray
- Size
- 15.5 MB
- Category
- Lifestyle
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 17.0 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 17.0 or later. - Mac
Requires macOS 14.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later. - Apple Vision
Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
13+
- 13+
- Infrequent
Mature or Suggestive Themes
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- UnFight Premium — Lifetime $129.99
- UnFight Premium — Annual $59.99
- UnFight Premium — Monthly $9.99
- Copyright
- © 2026 James Gray
