Nowadays: Relationship Journal
For Couples Therapy & Marriage
Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPad. Not verified for macOS.
Write down how each day with your partner actually went. It takes twenty seconds. After three months you can look back and see what has really been happening.
Nowadays is a quiet, private daily check-in for your relationship. Once a day it asks one
plain question and you answer by dragging a face, warmer or heavier, in a few seconds. Over
time those small check-ins become a picture of how things have actually felt, so you can see
the patterns memory tends to blur.
A mirror, not a judge. Nowadays never scores your relationship, never gives advice, and never
tells you to stay or leave. It keeps your record and shows you its shape, warm days rising in
peach, heavier days settling in blue, never red-and-green, because you are not being graded.
WHAT YOU DO
• A one-minute daily check-in, a gentle question and a face you drag, frown to smile.
• Mark a moment, tag what happened (time together, a good talk, closeness, a fight) if you like.
• Add a note in your own words. Everything optional, always.
WHAT YOU SEE
• A timeline where each day leans warm or heavy, with life events on the day they happened.
• A calendar of how each day felt, and a "lately" line of your overall warmth.
• Progress by area, connection, communication, intimacy, respect, appreciation, quality time.
PRIVATE BY DESIGN
• Your entries are encrypted and stay on your device. We can't read them.
• Face ID or a PIN locks the app before you write anything, and it auto-locks when you leave.
• A decoy PIN can open an empty version of the app. Notifications never reveal the question.
• No ads. Nothing sold. No partner access, ever.
FREE, AND HONEST ABOUT IT
Nowadays is free to use for the daily check-in, the full timeline and calendar, notes, and every
privacy feature. Nowadays More (optional) adds deeper chart views and PDF export.
Nowadays is a personal reflection tool, not medical or professional advice, and not a crisis
service. If you are in danger or crisis, please contact your local emergency services.
Terms of Use (EULA): https://nowadays.love/terms
Privacy Policy: https://nowadays.love/privacy
Ratings & Reviews
Small changes behind the scenes. Nothing you need to do.
Nowadays is new and built by one person. If something is broken or missing, tell me and I will fix it.
The developer, Alexander Jacobs, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Not Collected
The developer does not collect any data from this app.
Accessibility
The developer has not yet indicated which accessibility features this app supports. Learn More
Information
- Seller
- Alexander Jacobs
- Size
- 50.9 MB
- Category
- Lifestyle
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 16.4 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 16.4 or later. - iPad
Requires iPadOS 16.4 or later. - Mac
Requires macOS 12.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later. - Apple Vision
Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
English and 6 more
- English, French, German, Japanese, Korean, Polish, Spanish
- Age Rating
4+
- 4+
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- Nowadays More Yearly $29.99
- Nowadays More Monthly $3.99
- Copyright
- © 2026 Vigor Sci