The Grey Mirror is the flagship text message analyzer for relationships, and the first and only app that pulls your messages straight off your iPhone, with no Mac or PC. Import a whole iMessage and text message history from Messages in minutes, or upload a chat export from any app, and see how effort, warmth, conflict and repair change over time.
IMPORT STRAIGHT FROM YOUR IPHONE
• Import from Messages: read an entire iMessage or SMS conversation right off your iPhone, with no computer, no cable and no export step
• Or upload any export, in any file type, with no size cap: CSV, TXT, JSON, HTML, ZIP, PDF, a folder or a backup, from iMessage, WhatsApp, Instagram, Messenger, Telegram and more
• Add screenshots or a screen recording of any chat
• Years of messages are analyzed in minutes
SEE THE PATTERNS IN YOUR TEXTS
• Who texts first, who waits, and how reply times change
• Warmth, affection and conflict, and whether repair follows an argument
• Effort and reciprocity, measured separately for each person
• Red flags, mixed signals, ghosting and pulling away, counted from the messages
• Turning points: the moment the conversation changed
• A projection of where things are heading, and the next move most likely to change it
CHAT WITH YOUR CHAT HISTORY
Ask anything about your conversation and get answers from your own messages. When did it change? Who apologizes first? What happens after a fight? Every answer points to the messages behind it.
FOR EVERY KIND OF RELATIONSHIP
Boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife, an ex, a situationship, a crush, a friend, a parent or a sibling. Choose a romantic, friendship or family read and tell Grey Mirror what you want to understand.
EXPLORE YOUR READ
Watch the cinematic reveal or open the report at your own pace. Compare signals in the chart builder, change the date range and read the messages behind every finding.
EXPORT AND SHARE
• Share your scorecard as an image
• Export all of your data from Account at any time
QUESTIONS PEOPLE ASK
Can AI analyze my text messages? Yes. Grey Mirror reads the whole conversation and measures both people separately.
Can I analyze iMessages without a computer? Yes. Import them straight from Messages on your iPhone.
How long does it take? Minutes, even for a history that spans years.
START WITH A PREVIEW
Your first four findings are free. Confirm who is who, explore the preview and choose whether to open the complete report.
CHOOSE HOW TO UNLOCK
• Single report: one complete read with a one-time purchase
• Report packs: 3, 5 or 10 report credits, with no subscription
• Plus: 1 report credit each paid month, or 12 each paid year
• Pro: 3 each paid month, or 36 each paid year
• Studio: 8 each paid month, or 96 each paid year
Yearly plans grant their included credits for the year. Unused report credits carry forward. Every report you unlock stays on your account after cancellation, until you delete it. Current localized prices are shown before purchase.
Subscriptions renew automatically for the selected monthly or yearly period. Payment is charged to your Apple Account at purchase confirmation. Cancel at least 24 hours before renewal in Settings > Apple Account > Subscriptions. One-time reports and packs do not renew.
YOUR DATA, YOUR CONTROLS
Analysis runs on Grey Mirror's servers. Uploads and reports stay in your account until you delete them. Conversations are not used to train models. Export or delete your data from Account. Sign in with Apple, Google or email.
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Support: https://thegreymirror.com/contact
Terms of Use: https://thegreymirror.com/terms
Privacy Policy: https://thegreymirror.com/privacy
I usually don’t leave reviews but I genuinely found this app useful and seen it only had one review, if you guys could make the import/export steps more frictionless I would’ve given 5 stars because seeing all the emotions and signals on the animated chart lines was really insightful. And I literally had one of those “I knew I was right” moments when I seen how his verbal abuse was literally off the charts compared to mine. Same thing with the Darvo and the victim play signals. Good riddance to him, but very nice app you guys! Excited to see how this project develops! Just make wxporting the message histories easier and I’ll give ya 5 ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🫶👍
Developer Response
Thank you! We are also trying to find new ways to make the uploads more frictionless.
Invasive
Lauren02k
This app is invasive in all the right ways. Even my therapist wasn’t this helpful! Once this app catches on, I bet a lot of people may start seeing their therapists a little less, because the insight and facts this app slaps you in the face with is amazing.
Okay this is really cool
Grey mirror
My ex and I broke up on sept 23 of last year and it it marked a “turning point” 5 weeks before we broke up, I guess I wasn’t as blindsided as I thought!
Developer Response
Glad you liked it! Thanks!
okay, but confusing and buggy
flabbergasted!!!!!
so it started off like any other website, signing in using email, but after i took a screen shot and made it into a file, it told me that it didn’t have enough info, even though this is where i wanted to have my text analyzed. i just wish it was easier to use, and didn’t receive so many emails from the app itself. good job to the designer though, very creative and cool lobby. just a few bugs to smooth out, but keep working on it.
Developer Response
Thanks for this review: very honest and great feedback. Everything you said will be taken into consideration. Thank you!
A redesigned report. Each scene opens on its own chapter card, every chart shows one line for each of you, and ten new measures, from escalation and deflection to warmth and repair, show what your own lines say and what tends to help. Free previews now show what your complete report holds before you choose. Uploads keep going while you use other apps, and an upload cut short when the app closes picks up where it left off. Reports open faster and keep working on a weak connection.
Version 1.8.1
The developer, Terri Weant, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
Purchases
Contact Info
User Content
Identifiers
Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More
The developer indicated that this app supports the following accessibility features. Learn More
Supported Features
Dark Interface
Reduced Motion
Information
Seller
Terri Weant
Size
8.5 MB
Category
Lifestyle
Compatibility
Requires iOS 18.0 or later.
iPhone Requires iOS 18.0 or later.
Mac Requires macOS 15.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.