Parella: app for couples
Calendar & chat for you and me
Only for iPhone
Free · Designed for iPhone. Not verified for macOS.
iPhone
Parella (formerly You & Me): one calendar, one chat and goals for two, even if your phones differ.
Parella (formerly You & Me) is an app for couples: a shared calendar, a chat, a days-together counter and goals for two. No feed, no likes, nobody else: one calm place for just you and me.
WHAT'S INSIDE
• Shared calendar
Date nights, trips, appointments, birthdays — you both see the same schedule. Anniversaries repeat every year, an event that matters can remind you, and a ticket or booking goes with it.
• A chat for two
No group threads, no outsiders. Photos, voice messages, video circles, reactions, replies and read receipts.
• "Together for" counter
The date it all started and the days since — on the home screen and widget.
• Widgets for the home screen
Days together, moods, events, tasks you can tick off, a note, the photo of the day and the cycle day — without opening the app.
• Mood of the day
Log how your day goes and see your partner's. A month of history shows how you both have been.
• Games and questions for two
Questions for each other, "Secret answers", "Which of us?", a reaction duel, tic-tac-toe, Battleships. "Dilemma" — on one phone or on two: see where you agree.
• Assistant
Say or type "dinner with Anya on Saturday at seven" and it makes the event, chore or shopping item, showing what it will create first. It answers questions about your week, too.
• Cycle calendar
Whoever has a cycle marks a period's first and last day; the app works out the cycle and the next date; the partner sees what to expect. If you both have one, each gets their own — and only you two see it.
• Shared goals
The dream trip, the renovation, the half marathon — with a checklist, a cover and progress you both see. If it is about money, set an amount: you see what is saved and what is left, and the pot is shared.
• Letters to the future
A letter that opens no earlier than the day you pick. Until then nobody can read it, the author included: it stays sealed on the server.
• Wishlists
Each of you keeps a list with photos, prices and links. Your partner can reserve a gift without you finding out — the surprise stays a surprise.
• Agreements
Write down what you two settled on: who cooks, how you argue, what matters. Stopped working? Tap "Talk it over" and your partner sees it on the home screen.
• Lists
A shopping list, films and books, places to go — a place gets an address and directions. A tick shows on their phone at once; films and books get a genre and a rating. Chores are shared: "I'll take it" or "For Asya" — you both see who took what.
• Notes
The door code, the Wi-Fi password at your parents', an idea for the weekend. Pinned ones come first and show on the home screen; one can greet your partner on opening.
• Documents
Policies, tickets, contracts and scans — one shared folder, up to 50 MB.
• Loyalty cards
Store cards for both: a barcode or QR code at the till.
• Shared contacts
One address book for two: doctor, plumber, parents, friends.
• Album of memories
Shared photos with captions and dates. Up to 75 MB per couple.
• App lock
It opens the way your phone does — fingerprint, face or passcode.
HOW IT WORKS
One of you creates the couple space and gets a code or a link; the other joins — and everything shared appears for both. Changes sync in real time across different phones. Good for long-distance couples too: one calendar, one chat, the same lists.
Russian and English interface, light and dark themes.
For couples at any stage: just dating, living together or married for years.
Ratings & Reviews
• A new app icon: Clay and Sage are now 3D, as if moulded from clay, and Sage has grown a sprout. On your phone you can switch back to the previous icon or pick the flat one: Settings → Look and home → App icon.
• Sections on the “Ours” tab can now be dragged into another group too: press and hold one, drag it and let go where you want it.
• You can now reply to your partner’s photo of the day with an emoji or a few words. Tap the heart on the corner of their photo on the home screen — they’ll see your reply under their photo, and if photos of the day are saved to the album, it stays there too.
• Games on the “Ours” tab can now go into any group too: press and hold a game and drag it — say, “Battleships” up to the top, into the first group.
• There’s now a “Nibble” next to “Hug” on the home screen: one tap and your partner gets a notification. Like hugs, no more than once every ten minutes.
• On the “Touch” screen, taps in different places are no longer joined by a line, so you can leave dots. And your partner’s dot no longer lags behind its own trail.
• Voice messages your partner sends in a row now play one after another by themselves.
• Photos in the album and on the chat’s “Attachments” screen now flip with a tap near the edge of the photo, like in Telegram. And while the next photo loads, the previous one no longer stays on screen.
• In the chat, your partner’s messages now show their photo — or their character if they have no photo.
• Marking the end of a period is now easier: on the cycle screen the “Ended on this day” button stands out, and on the home screen “Ended earlier” sits next to “Ended today”.
• On iPhone, you can now set a task’s due date on the first try, and the options under an event’s “Repeat” no longer hide under the keyboard.
• The “Our calendar in Google and Apple” link now carries only shared events: personal ones, without “For both of us”, no longer end up in your partner’s calendar or in yours.
• At launch, the home screen no longer jumps: whatever your phone already knows is in place right away.
The developer, Mikhail Efanov, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
- Health & Fitness
- Purchases
- Financial Info
- Location
- Contact Info
- Contacts
- User Content
- Identifiers
- Diagnostics
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
- Contact Info
- Identifiers
- Usage Data
- Diagnostics
Accessibility
The developer has not yet indicated which accessibility features this app supports. Learn More
Information
- Seller
- Mikhail Efanov
- Size
- 23.7 MB
- Category
- Lifestyle
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 17.0 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 17.0 or later. - Mac
Requires macOS 14.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later. - Apple Vision
Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English and Russian
- Age Rating
13+
- 13+
- Infrequent
Medical Treatment information
Contains
Messaging and Chat
User-Generated Content
Health or Wellness Topics
- Copyright
- © 2026 Mikhail Efanov
