Bokay Dating : Slow the Swipe
Match, chat, date, and meet
Only for iPhone
Free · In-App Purchases
iPhone
AS SEEN ON DRAGONS' DEN
An Open Letter To Everyone Who's Tired of Dating Apps
Let me start by saying: I hear you.
You’re not wrong. Dating apps have become a mess. Shallow. Addictive. A numbers game that leaves you feeling lonelier than before. And it’s not you, it's by design.
We’ve been swiping left and right on love for too long. We’ve grown up. But the apps? They haven’t kept up.
That’s why we made Bokay—an app that slows things down and honours the real flow of connection.
With Bokay, photos start blurred. As you explore someone’s prompts, their image gradually comes into focus. We want you to slow the swipe. Why? Because attraction is more than just looks. It's a fusion of the eyes, mind, and heart.
We also built Juno, an in-app relationship coach. Because love is a skill. Dating is hard. Sometimes we need a little perspective, a little clarity, a little tough love. That’s what Juno’s here for.
And one more thing—
We know safety and trust matter. Too many apps are full of fake profiles, dead-end chats, and people who just aren’t real. Each time that happens, there’s disappointment. And worse, it chips away at your hope. That’s why everyone on Bokay is verified.
We made Bokay for people who are serious and soulful. People who want dating to feel human again.
And I’ll tell you something personal,
I met my wife, my soul's mate, on a dating app.
There is no other universe where we would’ve met. No mutual friends. No chance encounter. Just a shared hope… and an app that brought us together.
That’s the promise of dating apps when they’re done right: two people with the same intention, crossing paths they otherwise never could.
So if you’ve lost faith, I get it.
But I’m asking you to keep just a little.
Because love is always an act of hope over despair.
And Bokay was built to help that hope grow.
Yours,
Ali Momen
CEO & Co-Founder, Bokay
Privacy Policy - https://www.getbokay.com/privacy
Terms and Conditions - https://www.getbokay.com/terms
Images courtesy of and with proper license from Unsplash+ and Pexels
AS SEEN ON DRAGONS' DEN
In honour of our Dragons' Den debut, big things are happening at Bokay.
In Your Voice — Choose a prompt and answer it in your own voice. One audio clip. A real first impression.
Bokay Dates — Curated date ideas from our editors, some with exclusive pricing for members. Because the goal was never endless chatting, it's getting out there.
Plus design improvements throughout to make connecting smoother than ever.
The developer, Bokay Dating Inc., indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Used to Track You
The following data may be used to track you across apps and websites owned by other companies:
- Identifiers
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
- Purchases
- Location
- Contact Info
- User Content
- Identifiers
- Usage Data
- Sensitive Info
- Diagnostics
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
- Identifiers
Accessibility
The developer has not yet indicated which accessibility features this app supports. Learn More
Information
- Seller
- Bokay Dating Inc.
- Size
- 87.7 MB
- Category
- Lifestyle
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 13.0 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 13.0 or later. - iPod touch
Requires iOS 13.0 or later.
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
18+
- 18+
- Infrequent
Profanity or Crude Humor
Mature or Suggestive Themes
Alcohol, Tobacco, or Drug Use or References
Sexual Content or Nudity
Contains
Messaging and Chat
User-Generated Content
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- Bokay+ (Yearly) $79.99
- Bokay+ (Monthly) $19.99
- Bokay+ Monthly $29.99
- Bokay+ Lifetime access $129.99
- Bokay+ (3 Months) $59.99
- Copyright
- © Bokay Dating Inc.
