I Said, You Heard
More peaceful relationships.
Only for iPhone
Free · In-App Purchases
iPhone
Ever feel like you said one thing, but someone heard something completely different?
I Said, You Heard is your personal communication coach and guide, helping you understand why conversations go sideways and how to choose words that actually land. Based on Kathleen Edelman's acclaimed temperament framework and books (I Said This, You Heard That and A Grown Up's Guide to Kids' Wiring), this app reveals the hidden patterns behind every interaction.
DISCOVER YOUR WIRING
Take our temperament assessment to uncover your unique blend of Blue, Red, Yellow, and Green. Learn what that means for how you naturally speak, listen, and connect.
DAILY PRACTICE
Build your streak by completing daily, bite-sized exercises that are designed to promote growth in your communication and peace in your relationships.
TALK TO YOUR COACH
Stuck on how to handle a difficult conversation? Your virtual communication coach understands the temperament framework inside and out. Get personalized guidance for real situations, whether it's navigating conflict with your spouse, connecting with a distant teenager, or communicating effectively with colleagues.
USE THE FACILITATOR
Working through a tough conversation? The Facilitator will hear the perspectives of everyone involved, then send a personalized communication guide to each participant based on their unique wiring, innate needs, strengths, and weaknesses.
EXPLORE UNIVERSITY
Dive deep into the temperament framework with articles, exercises, and guides. Understand the words to choose to get through to your Red boss, Blue friend, Yellow partner, and Green teen.
TRACK YOUR GROWTH
Use the built-in journal to reflect on your conversations and see how far you've come. Set weekly challenges to go from theory to practice of healthier communication.
WHO THIS APP IS FOR:
• Couples who keep having the same arguments
• Parents struggling to connect with their kids
• Leaders who want to inspire (not frustrate) their teams
• Anyone tired of repeating the same misunderstandings
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:
• Why the same words land differently with different people
• How to translate your message for any temperament
• The patterns behind most communication breakdowns
• Practical phrases that build bridges instead of walls
SUBSCRIPTION DETAILS:
• Unlock unlimited access to Coach, Facilitator, and University
• Only $14.99/month
• Cancel anytime
Questions? Visit isaidyouheard.com or follow us @isaidyouheard
Terms of Use: https://assessment.isaidyouheard.com/terms
Privacy Policy: https://assessment.isaidyouheard.com/privacy-policy
Ratings & Reviews
Minor UI bugfix
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Information
- Seller
- Edelman LLC
- Size
- 12.4 MB
- Category
- Education
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 17.4 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 17.4 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
13+
- 13+
- Infrequent
Mature or Suggestive Themes
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- Unlimited Access - Monthly $19.99
- Gift Premium - 1 Year $129.99
- Gift Premium - 1 Month $19.99
- Copyright
- © Kind Words Are Cool LLC