believr 17+

The home for LGBTQ+ Christians

believr, Inc.

Designed for iPhone

    • 3.8 • 78 Ratings
    • Free
    • Offers In-App Purchases

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believr is where LGBTQ+ Christians come to find connection, belonging, and love.

Values-based matching
Form a lasting relationship by uncovering your personal values using our research inspired evaluation. We will then match you with people who share those values.

Community Spaces
Connect with other users while talking about what matters to you. We are cultivating a space for LGBTQ+ Christians to create belonging through meaningful conversations.

Customizable Profiles
Express yourself through your tailored profile. Want your bio to be the first? Great! Want to show off that smile? Cool! We want you to own your first impression.

Privacy Settings
Control what information you share. Nearly every part of your profile has a privacy setting so that you can share only what you want. Regardless of your journey, our primary concern is for you to feel safe and secure.

Thoughtful Preferences
Within believr, preferences are limited to age and gender identity.

Trust and Safety First
Feeling unsafe within the app? That's not okay. Safety is our number one priority, and we've made blocking and reporting simple.

Community dashboard
Our community is incredible! The dashboard is a curated space where resources will be featured to connect you to the larger community.

Direct Messaging
No winks, no likes, just straight to talking. We want you making meaningful connections as quickly as possible.

Also available from believr:
Spectrum - believr’s paid monthly subscription

- Every Sunday, believr will introduce you to new people to connect with via our values-based matcher. spectrum users will receive 40 new people per week to connect with while our other users will receive 7.

- We verify every user, ensuring they are not a robot. However, spectrum users receive an additional verification, confirming they are who they say they are. This is signified by the pink checkmark on profiles.

- Hitting it off with someone in the community space? Continue the conversation one-on-one. spectrum users will have the ability to both review someone's profile from the Community Space and direct message them.

- Your continued support fuels development and the future of believr. Thank you, spectrum users, for believing in our mission and vision. We couldn't do this without you.

- Receive insider promotions and discounts from your favorite authors, artists, and organizations. Our spectrum users get early access to new features and curated content.

- Express yourself! If a picture is worth a thousand words then a GIF (pronounced with a hard "G"; no peanut butter here) is worth at least ten thousand. With spectrum, you'll get access to GIFs within your direct messages and the Community Spaces.

We have a “pay what you can model” starting at $19.99 per month, $9.99 per month or $4.99 per month or $99.99 for 6 months (first 2 months free) or $199.99 for a year (first 2 months free).
Price may vary by location. Subscriptions will be charged to your credit card through your iTunes account. Where applicable, your subscription will automatically renew unless canceled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Subscriptions may not be canceled for refund except as provided in believr’s Terms. Manage your subscriptions in Account Settings after purchase.
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What’s New

Version 2.7

Version 2.7, code name Magenta, has been released!

1247 - Enhancement - updated spectrum payment screens AND new pricing model with “Pay What You Can”.
1248 - Enhancement - completely redesigned profile screen, thank you @blue!
1324 - Bug - enable the community to retake the values quiz after 6 months.
1325 - Bug - Internal Server Error when someone taps the connections you passed by widget and they’re a basic member.
1326 - Bug - some members were experiencing a transient crash.
1332 - Enhancement - updated onboarding screens for Direct Messages and Community Spaces
1333 - Enhancement - updated design for the no more connections screen.
1334 - Enhancement - updated design for need to take the values quiz screen.
1335 - Enhancement - updated onboarding screen design for quiz.
1338 - Bug - some members were experiencing another transient crash.
1343 + 1348 - Bug - some members were experiencing another transient crash.
1356 - Enhancement - adding loading experience for the Dashboard.
1362 - Bug - fixes for updated profiles. Thanks, Beta testers!
1367 - Enhancement - the Church cards on the Dashboard are now location-specific!
1369 - Enhancement - updated delete account flow to ask people why they’re deleting their account.
1375 - Bug - updated design fixes for no more connections screen. Thanks, Beta testers!
1383 - Bug - updated design fixes to the profile. Thanks, Beta testers!
1390 - Enhancement - updated design flow for spectrum part 2.

Ratings and Reviews

3.8 out of 5
78 Ratings

78 Ratings

smw1998 ,

Awesome, but still a couple bugs.

Believr has been such a breath of fresh air for me because I’m able to find people who have similar stories as me and befriend them! But, there are still a couple bugs that I am experiencing.
When originally filling out the profile info, my phone auto filled my full name, and I didn’t realize it until I had everything set up. I have tried to go back and edit my name so it shows what I want it to show, but every time I reopen the app it goes back to my full name. Please fix this!
Also, the pronouns options only show up in one order on a profile, and I use multiple, but I don’t necessarily prefer them in the order that they show up, e.g. using she/they and preferring she over they, but they/them occurs before she/her on the profile. Adding some type of prioritizing feature would be great.
Overall a wonderful app that has helped me make some friends!!

Developer Response ,

Hi hi - so glad you're enjoying the app! Thank you for the incredibly helpful feedback. We'll add it to the list of feature requests from the community which you can find at

The full name issue has been fixed :)

RebekahRoseWilson ,

The best dating app to date (pun intended)

As someone who actively stays in the loop while using the beta version of this app, I can attest that the bug issues that were complained about previously had already been discussed within the long chain of text (which they also complained about) in order to fix them—I guess they didn’t read through it before complaining about it. They’re planning on turning that into many groups and chatrooms, anyway.. The issues have all been resolved and the app is already much better than any app I’ve used..and I’ve literally used (and paid for) them all. Like, 10 different apps. The app is designed to match you according to values and force you to actually get to know someone a bit before you decide they’re “not your type” and swipe left. Seeing a high percentage values match definitely makes you reconsider passing someone up so quickly just because they don’t have “the look” you think is so important. If you’re looking for something real with someone truly compatible, this is the app to use. Not having the most important values in common is the root of failed relationships—this is the only app that tackles that head-on. I could say so much more, but you should just check it out for yourself!

Developer Response ,

Thanks for the review! We're thrilled you like the app.

MontyG91 ,

Too Few Matches

I’m very frustrated by the lack of distance filter. After paying for premium, I still only had a handful of matches on Sunday, only one of which was in my area. It’s strange to have the app be so stingy about matches. I click through my matches every week in about two minutes as I check the locations to see if anyone lives near me. I usually go back and look through the profiles more intentionally after that, but if I only have about seven to ten matches the odds that one is going to be intriguing enough for me to strike up a long distance relationship/friendship based on a few prompts is low. This app would be much better if it was just a standard dating app with regular filters and some form of looking through profiles and liking them with the difference being that it is just for LGBTQ Christians. Getting assigned a few random people who live all over the country based on “values” (sometimes with only a couple of those in common) once a week is not a feature. It’s frustrating because we really need a way to connect with other queer Christians and this app has potential to be that but it wastes all of its potential on the weird matching system.

App Privacy

The developer, believr, Inc., indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy.

Data Used to Track You

The following data may be used to track you across apps and websites owned by other companies:

  • Identifiers

Data Linked to You

The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:

  • Purchases
  • Location
  • Contact Info
  • User Content
  • Identifiers
  • Usage Data
  • Sensitive Info
  • Diagnostics

Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More

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