Datestiny
Dating, slower & on purpose
Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPad. Not verified for macOS.
The dating app that wants you off it. One match a day, picked by a Coach who's read your profile. No swipe deck. No infinite feed. Find someone worth deleting the app for
The dating app for those who don't do dating apps.
Most dating apps want you swiping forever. We want you gone.
Datestiny is built on one belief: a dating app should have an ending. Not engagement metrics. Not time-in-app goals. An actual relationship that makes you delete us. That's what winning looks like.
One match a day. Picked by a Coach who's read your profile.
No swipe deck. No infinite feed. No algorithm quietly optimizing for "just one more."
Every day, our AI Coach reviews who you are — not just what you look like — and picks one person worth your attention. One match. That's it. If it's not right, there's always tomorrow. But today, you focus.
The 3Bs: How we actually match.
Forget compatibility scores pulled from nowhere. We evaluate every match on three dimensions that matter:
• Brains — How you'll talk. Communication style, curiosity, how you think through problems together.
• Brand — What you stand for. Your values, your priorities, what you're building your life around.
• Body — How you live. Lifestyle, energy, the daily rhythms that have to sync for this to work.
You'll see exactly why Coach picked this person. No black box. No mystery percentage.
Suggest a date. With an actual place.
When you're ready to meet, don't play the "so where should we go" game forever. Datestiny shows real venues nearby — coffee shops, restaurants, parks — and lets you propose a spot and time. They confirm, you both get a reminder, and you actually show up.
Make it official.
When you're both ready, say it. "We're official" locks in the moment — the day you went from matching to something real. Share it or keep it between you.
Coach Recap.
Once you're official, look back at how it started. See why Coach picked them for you, what made you compatible, and the milestones along the way — your first message, when you met in person, the day you made it official.
Live events. Real advice.
Watch live streams from couples who met on Datestiny — and from Tony Gaskins himself. Real talk about dating, relationships, and what it takes to build something that lasts. Ask questions. Get answers.
In-person meetups.
We host real events in real cities. Show up, meet other people dating with intention. Sometimes the best match isn't in your daily pick. It's across the room.
Built by a relationship coach. Not a growth team.
Datestiny was created by Tony Gaskins Jr., a relationship coach with 20 years on the job. Not a startup optimizing for addiction. The incentives are simple: we win when you find someone worth quitting for.
Your data. Your control.
We don't sell your information. Ever. Face detection runs locally on your device — we never store biometric data. Delete your account anytime and your data goes with it.
Privacy Policy: https://datestinyapp.com/privacy.html
Terms of Service: https://datestinyapp.com/terms.html
Safety Guidelines: https://datestinyapp.com/safety.html
Acceptable Use Policy: https://datestinyapp.com/acceptable-use.html
Pricing: https://datestinyapp.com/pricing.html
This is dating with an ending.
Download Datestiny. Find someone worth deleting the app for.
Ratings & Reviews
The developer, Virtue Tank LLC, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
- Purchases
- Location
- Contact Info
- User Content
- Identifiers
- Usage Data
- Sensitive Info
- Diagnostics
Accessibility
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Information
- Seller
- Virtue Tank LLC
- Size
- 143.6 MB
- Category
- Lifestyle
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 16.0 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 16.0 or later. - iPad
Requires iPadOS 16.0 or later. - Mac
Requires macOS 13.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later. - Apple Vision
Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
18+
- 18+
- This app is rated 18+ with content restrictions.
Some content may be rated higher, and may therefore be restricted and managed by the developer through in-app controls. - In-App Controls
Age Assurance
Infrequent
Profanity or Crude Humor
Mature or Suggestive Themes
Alcohol, Tobacco, Drug Use or References
Sexual Content or Nudity
Contains
Messaging and Chat
User-Generated Content
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- Datestiny Pro $5.99
- Datestiny Pro $119.99
- Copyright
- © Virtue Tank LLC