FlagMyDM
Spot Red Flags in Your DMs
Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPad. Not verified for macOS.
New: Top 5 match ranking and weekly Clarity Reports. See who's worth your time and know exactly what to say next.
FlagMyDM is your AI dating wingperson. Paste a conversation or upload a screenshot from Hinge, Bumble, Tinder, or Raya and get an instant match score, red flag / green flag breakdown, and a smart reply tailored to your tone — all in under 60 seconds.
Stop wasting time on the wrong people. FlagMyDM ranks your Top 5 matches so you focus on the conversations actually worth your energy, and shows you what to say next so you never lose momentum.
WHAT YOU GET
• Instant match score from 0–100 with detailed red/green flag analysis
• AI-suggested replies that sound like you, not a bot
• Top 5 ranked matches dashboard updated as you analyze new chats
• Weekly Clarity Report with patterns, momentum score, and outcome tracking
• Shareable insight cards (privacy-safe — no names, no photos) for Instagram, TikTok, WhatsApp, and iMessage
• Batch analysis to triage multiple conversations at once
• Smart feedback loop that learns from your outcomes and gets sharper over time
PRIVACY FIRST
Your conversations are yours. Shared insight cards never include names, profile photos, or personal identifiers. You can export or delete your data anytime.
SUBSCRIPTIONS
Core Plan — FlagMyDM Premium
Unlock unlimited analyses, your full Top 5 dashboard, weekly clarity reports, smart replies in every tone, and shareable insight cards.
• Weekly: $4.99 (7-day free trial)
• Monthly: $9.99
• Yearly: $49.99
Advanced Plan — Dating Intelligence Suite
Everything in Core, plus Ghost Risk Meter, Emotional Maturity Score, Behavioral Insights, Outcome Prediction, and Chat Rescue.
• Weekly: $7.99 (7-day free trial)
• Monthly: $19.99
• Yearly: $119
Subscriptions auto-renew unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Manage or cancel anytime in your Apple ID settings.
Terms of Use: https://p-ggsi721o2vy5empusyezb.rork.live/terms
Privacy Policy: https://p-ggsi721o2vy5empusyezb.rork.live/privacy
Ratings & Reviews
- This app hasn’t received enough ratings or reviews to display an overview.
Bug fixes and improvements: compare different people side by side, post-trial subscription options with Restore Purchases, and optional confirmation emails.
The developer, Cesar Johnsen Bogouri, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
- Purchases
- Contact Info
- User Content
- Identifiers
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
- Identifiers
- Diagnostics
Accessibility
The developer has not yet indicated which accessibility features this app supports. Learn More
Information
- Seller
- Cesar Johnsen Bogouri
- Size
- 42.8 MB
- Category
- Lifestyle
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 15.1 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 15.1 or later. - iPad
Requires iPadOS 15.1 or later. - iPod touch
Requires iOS 15.1 or later. - Mac
Requires macOS 12.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later. - Apple Vision
Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
18+
- 18+
- Frequent
Mature or Suggestive Themes
Infrequent
Profanity or Crude Humor
Contains
Unrestricted Web Access
Messaging and Chat
User-Generated Content
Social Media
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- FlagMyDM Advanced Annual $119.00
- FlagMyDM Advanced Weekly $7.99
- FlagMyDM Advanced Monthly $19.99
- FlagMyDM Core Monthly $9.99
- FlagMyDM Core Annual $49.99
- FlagMyDM Core Weekly $4.99
- Copyright
- © 2026 FlagMyDM