HoldSend

Lifestyle

Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPad. Not verified for macOS.

HoldSend helps you pause when you feel the impulse to contact someone after a breakup or a difficult relationship. Before sending a message you may regret, open HoldSend. The app guides you through a short pause, helps you identify what triggered the urge, and suggests a calmer alternative. With HoldSend, you can: • Interrupt an impulse with Emergency Mode • Write a message without sending it • Analyze the probable emotion, intention, and risks behind your message • Lock a message for 24 hours before deciding what to do • Analyze a received message and consider its possible intentions • Create a short, neutral, or boundary-setting reply • Save the reasons why you decided to step back • Complete quick daily emotional check-ins • Keep a private personal journal • Identify your recurring triggers and patterns • Track resisted urges and messages not sent • Follow a guided 30-day program • Contact a trusted support person when you need help HoldSend never makes decisions for you and never sends messages automatically. You always remain in control of your choices and progress counter. Your entries may contain sensitive personal information. HoldSend includes privacy options such as discreet notifications, biometric protection, and data deletion controls. HoldSend is a personal wellness and self-support tool. It does not provide medical diagnoses and is not a substitute for professional care or emergency services. Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/

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Added HoldSend Premium with a 7-day free trial. Secure App Store purchases and purchase restoration. Improved emotional support, guided advice, and journaling. Better sign-in, subscription, and error handling. Stability fixes and improved iPhone/iPad interface.

Version 1.1

The developer, Ulrich DAHISSIHO, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .

  • Data Linked to You

    The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:

    • Health & Fitness
    • Purchases
    • Contact Info
    • Contacts
    • User Content
    • Identifiers
    • Usage Data
    • Diagnostics

Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More

Accessibility

The developer has not yet indicated which accessibility features this app supports. Learn More

Information

Seller
Ulrich DAHISSIHO
Size
36.8 MB
Category
Lifestyle
Compatibility
Requires iOS 15.1 or later.
  • iPhone
    Requires iOS 15.1 or later.
  • iPad
    Requires iPadOS 15.1 or later.
  • iPod touch
    Requires iOS 15.1 or later.
  • Mac
    Requires macOS 12.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.
  • Apple Vision
    Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
Languages
English
Age Rating
16+
  • 16+
  • Learn More
  • Frequent
    Mature or Suggestive Themes

    Infrequent
    Realistic Violence
    Alcohol, Tobacco, Drug Use or References

    Contains
    Health or Wellness Topics
In-App Purchases
Yes
Copyright
© 2026 HoldSend. All rights reserved.
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