I’ve been on 2 other dating sites for 3 years. This one so far is exactly what I want. ( so far ). Those who have problems need to learn Ins and outs of these programs, no program will be 100 %. Others will change your preferences in order to make it look like more in your distance selection. Etc. while I have only been here for a week, I’ve already made contact with a few possibilities. I don’t expect Cinderella to pop up out of my screen. It takes searching, working and putting time into this.

I’ve been on other dating apps and this is the worse. In only a week or less I have been approached by fake people asking for email and phone numbers. The numbers they gave me have been verified and they don’t exist. Beyond that, you specify within which distance (say within 20 miles) and I got nothing from even the state I live in but plenty of winks from other states in the US, Europe and elsewhere. One woman wrote me that she was ready to relocate anywhere! In a week I have seen no change whatsoever in the list of people found near me, you can’t remove those who are not of your interest, it’s unclear how to make them favorites… horrible app in terms of usability. Last and most important, I want to cancel my subscription within the week and I can’t possibly find a way to contact these people. I cannot believe Apple is allowing this app to be in their store, stay away from it!!!

This site is crawling with scammers and creeps! Most of the men are scary to say the least. Extremely unattractive. The ones that look okay and have decent, articulate profile are scammers. I think they have writers for their profiles. Most likely a woman. They say so nicely everything a woman wants to hear. When you message them and they message back, they cannot spell, have no punctuation and ask for your email or phone number. Their objective is to get personal information and take you on a hurtful, dark ride. Be CAREFUL! Do not use this site. The possibility of being scammed is on every site, but this one is absolutely the worst. The matches are from everywhere EXCEPT your area. Read the red flags. Please save yourself from the creeps on this site.

I definitely made a mistake signing up and paying for premium. I indicated in the initial questionnaire that I’m looking for someone who lives close to me. But there’s no way to choose location as a filter for who can see your profile. Despite being in one of the fastest growing major cities in the U.S. there are very few men in the “picks” who live even within an hour of here. And honestly I’m guessing less than 10 who are premium status.So I’m spending my time deleting winks and messages from people all around the country - when my profile makes it very (but politely) clear I won’t answer anyone who isn’t in my area. Such a waste of my time! Don’t pay for premium. You can’t narrow who sees you by location, and if you do choose filters, you’re warned that you’re limiting your choices like it’s a bad thing (??)Plus most everyone else is on the free version, so you’re seeing the same people who are on all the free apps. And the obviously don’t even read your profile because mine says I won’t reply, don’t want a long-distance relationship and will not relocate from my area.