The 13th-Step: Sober Dating
Sober living first.
Only for iPhone
Free · Designed for iPhone. Not verified for macOS.
iPhone
The 13th Step connects sober people looking for relationships. Sobriety is at the center so you can find a caring companions, romantic relationships–and maybe even love.
Tired of dating apps where drinking is the norm?
The 13th Step is created especially for sober people who want real, meaningful connections — without alcohol. Whether you’re looking for sober dating, seeking sober relationships, or just want to meet sober people who truly understand your lifestyle, this app offers a safe, supportive space for everyone on a recovery journey.
What You’ll Find Here
1.Sober Dating
Meet sober people who live alcohol-free and respect your commitment to sobriety. Whether you’re new to recovery or have been sober for years, find someone special who shares your values and supports your sober dating goals. Real relationships start here, built on honesty and shared understanding.
2.Make New Friends
Not ready to date? No worries! Join a warm and welcoming community of sober people eager to connect. Make sober connections that enrich your life and strengthen your recovery, all without the pressure or judgment often found in typical dating apps.
3.Events & Meetups
Join sober hangouts, group chats, and local or online meetups designed specifically for sober people. Experience fun and social events that encourage genuine interaction and friendship — all completely alcohol-free. It’s a place to meet sober people, expand your network, and build lasting sober connections.
Why People Love The 13th Step
●100% made for sober singles and friends
●Safe, kind, and judgment-free environment for sober dating and recovery
●Connect with people who are also living alcohol-free and understand your journey
●Easy to use, full of good vibes, and focused on real connection
Is This App Right for You?
If you’re seeking a sober relationship, want to make sober friends, or are committed to recovery, The 13th Step is the app designed for you. This is a place to meet sober people who respect your lifestyle and support your sober dating journey. If you’re tired of dating apps where drinking is the norm, join The 13th Step — a safe and welcoming community for sober connections.
Start Your Journey Today
Download The 13th Step and meet sober people who want what you want: genuine connection, friendship, and love — the sober way. It’s time to feel seen, supported, and valued in your recovery. Join now. It’s free to get started!
- Discover people worldwide on Home and Friends with no distance radius cutoff, sorted nearest first
- Smoother swipe decks with pull to refresh
- Like and pass from profile details more consistently across the app
- More reliable push notifications
- Likes & Views sorted by most recent, with a more stable grid layout
- Profile completion improvements
- Crash and stability fixes across Home, Friends, notifications, and preferences
The developer, Greg Chupp, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Used to Track You
The following data may be used to track you across apps and websites owned by other companies:
- Location
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
- User Content
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
- Location
- Contact Info
- User Content
Accessibility
The developer has not yet indicated which accessibility features this app supports. Learn More
Information
- Seller
- Greg Chupp
- Size
- 184.7 MB
- Category
- Entertainment
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 16.0 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 16.0 or later. - Mac
Requires macOS 13.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later. - Apple Vision
Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
18+
- 18+
- This app is rated 18+ with content restrictions.
Some content may be rated higher, and may therefore be restricted and managed by the developer through in-app controls. - In-App Controls
Age Assurance
Contains
Messaging and Chat
User-Generated Content
Social Media
- Copyright
- © Greg Chupp
