Reduce conflict. Protect your kids. Coparency gives high-conflict co-parents the structure to communicate calmly, document everything, and keep kids out of the middle.
Coparency is a co-parenting app built for high-conflict situations.
It helps separated and divorced parents communicate through structure instead of conflict — keeping every exchange calm, documented, and focused on the kids, even when the relationship between parents is strained.
This is not texting. Coparency replaces chaotic, emotionally charged messaging with a structured communication system designed to reduce escalation, create clear records, and protect your peace of mind.
KEY FEATURES
Peacekeeper AI — Communication Support
• Get real-time feedback on tone before you send
• Turn conflict-prone messages into calm, child-focused communication
• Catch hostile or defensive language before it escalates
• Protect yourself from impulsive replies you'll regret
Structured Messaging & Records
• Keep every conversation organized, on-topic, and documented
• Build a clear, court-friendly communication record automatically
• End the endless back-and-forth and circular arguments
Shared Schedules & Parenting Plans
• Coordinate parenting time, exchanges, and important dates
• Reduce misunderstandings about who has the kids and when
• Keep both parents aligned on the plan
Expense Tracking
• Log shared costs and keep a transparent record
• Reduce disputes over money and reimbursements
• Know who owes what, without the argument
DESIGNED FOR HIGH-CONFLICT CO-PARENTING
• Built to reduce emotional harm and escalation
• Encourages child-centered, business-like communication
• Helps you set boundaries and stay consistent
WHY COPARENCY?
If you're dealing with constant hostile messages, manipulation, or communication that always turns into conflict, Coparency gives you the tools, structure, and emotional guardrails to stay calm, clear, and focused on what matters most: your kids.
Whether you're newly separated or years into a high-conflict dynamic, Coparency helps you:
• Reduce stress and emotional drain
• Avoid reactive messages you'll regret
• Create clear records and firm boundaries
• Keep your children out of adult conflict
This isn't just a messaging app. It's a communication safety system for co-parents.
Built by a parent who's lived it. Designed for parents who need it.
This is an amazing app. I has so many features and checkboxes I am looking for. The ability to add calendars, the ability to export to iPhone calendars. Easy swaps. Expenses in there too. Two areas of improvement: (1) the ability to add own holidays. As example, on parent has Christmas Eve and the other has Christmas Day, and it swaps each year. Other special holidays that are not just built in. (2) UI/UX is a bit stiff compared to other apps that seem move fluid. It’s not clunky at all, just a bit corporate vs contemporary. The first ask of adding your own holidays, is most important and would make this a premium app based on features.
Developer Response
Custom holidays are live. In the holiday schedule, tap Add a Holiday, name it anything, set start and end dates and times, and pick which parent has it in even and odd years so it alternates automatically. Your point about the interface stands and it's on our list. Thanks for the detailed review; the holiday request went straight to the top of the queue.
• Children with more than one co-parent? You can now set up a separate space for each from My Account > My Profile, and switch between them from your profile menu.
• Tapping a notification now opens the right family, even if you were viewing another.
• Grandparents, nannies and other support contacts now get a simpler view: the family calendar and the messages sent to them.
Version 1.1.9
The developer, Matthew Townsend, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Not Collected
The developer does not collect any data from this app.
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Accessibility
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Information
Seller
Matthew Townsend
Size
28 MB
Category
Productivity
Compatibility
Requires iOS 18.0 or later.
iPhone Requires iOS 18.0 or later.
iPad Requires iPadOS 18.0 or later.
Mac Requires macOS 15.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.