HumphreyChat
AI dating assistant
Free
DATING IS A FULL-TIME JOB
Humphrey does the busy work so you don't have to.
You've sent "Hey!" more times than you can count. You forgot your date's hometown. You scrambled for a restaurant the day of. Sound familiar?
Humphrey is your AI dating assistant — not another matching app. He remembers what you forget, learns what you like, and helps you show up better every time.
HOW IT WORKS
1. Date Like Normal
After every date, jot a few notes: where you went, what was said, what clicked. Takes 30 seconds.
2. Ask Humphrey
Need a text to send? A restaurant for Saturday? A refresher on what your date does for work? Just ask.
3. Watch It Compound
Every note builds a richer profile. Every date teaches Humphrey your preferences. Your 5th date gets advice your 1st never could.
YOUR AI ASSISTANT
• Text Coach — Draft replies that reference real details from your dates, not generic openers
• Date Planner — Find restaurants on Resy with open tables that match the vibe
• Date Prep — Get briefed before every date: what she does, what to talk about, what to avoid
• Prompt Writer — Hinge openers based on real prompts and photos
• Letdown Easy — End things gracefully when it's not working out
YOUR DATING JOURNAL
• Date Debrief — Rate dates, capture what mattered, and reflect while it's fresh
• My Stats — See your dating analytics: dates this month, average rating, top venues
• My Trends — Track how your dating life is changing over time
• Ask Humphrey — "Who have I been on the most dates with?" "What's Sarah's hometown?" Just ask.
Every note you write builds a profile that makes Humphrey smarter. Over time, he learns who you click with, what kind of dates work for you, and where you keep going back.
WHY NOT JUST USE CHATGPT?
Memory. ChatGPT forgets you exist between sessions. Humphrey remembers every note, every date, every detail — and his advice gets better every time. No re-explaining. No copy-pasting screenshots. Just ask.
BUILT FOR PRIVACY
Your notes are yours alone. Data is encrypted, isolated to your account, and never used to train AI models. Revoke AI access or delete everything with one tap.
100+ dates in NYC. I built the tool I wish I'd had.
Ratings & Reviews
Humphrey is your AI dating assistant — here's everything he can do.
• Text Coach — draft replies that reference real details from your dates
• Date Planner — find restaurants on Resy with open tables
• Date Prep — get briefed before every date with conversation topics
• Prompt Writer — Hinge openers based on real prompts and photos
• Date Debrief — rate dates and reflect while it's fresh
• My Stats & Trends — see how your dating life is actually going
• Private by design — your data is encrypted and never shared
The developer, Humphrey Technologies LLC, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
- Contact Info
- Contacts
- User Content
- Identifiers
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
- Location
- Usage Data
Accessibility
The developer has not yet indicated which accessibility features this app supports. Learn More
Information
- Seller
- Humphrey Technologies LLC
- Size
- 5 MB
- Category
- Lifestyle
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 15.0 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 15.0 or later. - iPad
Requires iPadOS 15.0 or later. - iPod touch
Requires iOS 15.0 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
16+
- 16+
- Infrequent
Mature or Suggestive Themes
Alcohol, Tobacco, Drug Use or References
Sexual Content or Nudity
- Copyright
- © 2026 HumphreyChat