Secure Space: Love & Breakups

Anxious? Avoidant? Start here.

Only for iPhone

Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPhone. Not verified for macOS.

iPhone

One text can take over your whole day. Maybe you are waiting for a reply. Maybe you are replaying a conversation, going quiet when you want to speak, or sending something you wish you could take back. Secure Space helps you pause, understand the pattern underneath the reaction, and choose a different next step. A private place to come back to yourself. WHO IT’S FOR Secure Space is for the moments when relationships feel hard to hold alone. For breakups. For chasing connection when someone pulls away, or pulling away when closeness feels overwhelming. For the “what are we?” phase, when every unread message feels like a verdict. For anyone who has felt “too much” or like they were disappearing to keep the peace. Not sure where you land? That is a starting point, not a problem to solve. HOW IT WORKS Begin with a short attachment assessment. Your result is not a label. It is a starting point for noticing your patterns around reassurance, space, and connection. When something happens, Check In. Type a few words or choose how you are feeling, then find the tool that fits the moment: a Reset for clarity, Ground Me for a calming pause, Secure Send before a message, or a reframe for another perspective. WHAT YOU’LL FIND INSIDE • People: Keep people, relationship moments, reflections, notes, and dates in one private place. • Check In: Name what is happening and find a helpful next step. • Reset: A guided path from reaction to clarity. • Repair: After a fight, a clear plan to make things right • Ground Me: A short calming pause for when your body gets there before your thoughts do. • Secure Send: Write in your voice, check tone and boundaries, then decide what feels right before you send. • Daily Quiz: Practice everyday relationship moments in two minutes. • Practice: Guided exercises for real situations in dating, relationships, breakups, communication, and self-worth. Return later for a gentle Look Back. • Reframe Library: Find another perspective for delayed replies, conflict, distance, breakups, trust, and more. • Learn and First Aid: Clear reads, prompts, and in-the-moment support. • Insights: See your Secure Path and Growth Signals, including patterns and what seems to help. • Daily Reframe: A fresh perspective and affirmation each day. • Siri and Shortcuts: Open Check In, Reset, Ground Me, Secure Send, Today’s Reframe, or search the Library. PRIVATE BY DESIGN Your reflections, People profiles, assessment results, and personal insights are stored on your device. No account is required. We do not sell your personal data or use what you write to train models. You can protect Secure Space with Face ID, Touch ID, or your device passcode. Some optional Secure Send requests can use Apple Private Cloud Compute on supported devices. Secure Space always asks first and explains what is shared for that specific request. We collect only limited anonymous onboarding events to improve the setup experience. We do not collect your notes, messages, assessment answers, scores, people, or relationship activity. SECURE SPACE PRO Secure Space is free to begin. Secure Space Pro unlocks full access to premium tools, practices, People, Secure Path, Growth Signals, and more. Payment will be charged to your Apple ID account at confirmation of purchase. Weekly and yearly subscriptions renew automatically unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Your account will be charged for renewal within 24 hours before the end of the current period. You can manage or cancel subscriptions anytime in your App Store account settings. A one-time lifetime purchase is also available. A NOTE ON WHAT THIS IS Secure Space is a self-reflection tool. It is not therapy and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. If you are in crisis or feel unsafe, please contact a licensed professional or local emergency services. Terms of Service: https://securespace.app/terms Privacy Policy: https://securespace.app/privacy

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Thank you to everyone using Secure Space to grow in love and relationships. If the app helps you, we’d really appreciate a review. It helps us a ton! Here’s what’s new in v3.1.1: NEW: Optimized for iPhone Duo Secure Space now feels at home on iPhone Duo, folded or open. • Open it up and Home, Library and Insights spread out side by side • Your buttons move into the side bar, out of the way of what you’re reading • Half folded, nothing lands on the fold • Folded, everything fits the smaller screen Improvements: • People now has its own button on Home • Daily quiz reminders that arrive every day • Quizzes started from a reminder now count as done We also fixed bugs and made the app faster and smoother.

The developer, Abboud Abou Elias, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .

  • Data Not Linked to You

    The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:

    • Usage Data

Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More

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Seller
Abboud Abou Elias
Size
200.8 MB
Category
Health & Fitness
Compatibility
Requires iOS 17.0 or later.
  • iPhone
    Requires iOS 17.0 or later.
  • Mac
    Requires macOS 14.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.
  • Apple Vision
    Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
Languages
English and German
Age Rating
16+
In-App Purchases
Yes
  • Secure Space Pro Yearly Discount $22.99
  • Yearly $39.99
  • Monthly $7.99
  • Weekly $6.99
  • Lifetime $99.99
Copyright
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