Keep It Civil: What To Say
Help for Hard Talks & Texts
Only for iPhone
Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPhone. Not verified for macOS.
iPhone
Whatever you've been afraid to say — we'll help you say it. Calm, clear responses for difficult messages. For your partner, ex, mom, boss, in-law, coparent, dating, etc.
It's 11 p.m. and you've re-typed the same text to someone close to you 10 times. You've been putting this conversation off for a week because you don't know what to say without risking an uncomfortable situation, or worse, and all-out fight. You delete it again.
Keep It Civil helps you find the words you actually want to send — to your
partner after a fight, to your ex about the kids, to your boss about
something you can't let slide.
Keep It Civil will help you find the right words for these tough conversations so you can move forward.
USE IT FOR
• The text you've been afraid to send
• The apology that doesn't grovel
• The "we need to talk" message you can't get right
• The reply when your in-laws crossed a line
• The breakup that doesn't burn the bridge
• The boundary you've been meaning to set
• The hard conversation about money, parenting, distance
• The boss email you've started and deleted six times
• The group chat going sideways with your siblings
• The co-parent message that doesn't escalate
• The business that owes you a refund.
HOW IT WORKS
Tell us what happened. Pick your relationship and tone. Get a calm, clear
response in seconds. Copy, edit if you'd like, and send.
WHAT YOU GET
• Track your relationships in one place — partner, ex, mom, dad, boss,
coworker, in-law, sibling, friend, coparent, etc . .
• Tone control: calm, honest, firm, or playful
• A private journal to reflect after you send
• Civil Streak — share and track how many days you've kept it civil!
• Multiple response options for every situation
• Works across every relationship type, every conflict type
PRIVACY
Your conversations stay yours. No third-party trackers. No advertising
network in your private moments. We never sell your data. Ever.
PRICING
Start free. Three subscription tiers when you're ready:
• Civil Pro $9.99/mo — for one person, unlimited replies
• Civil Families $39.99/mo — for up to 10 people, one subscription covers the entire family
• Civil Teams $199.99/mo — for businesses or teams doing their best to maintain civility
One subscription covers your couple, family, or co-parent pair — no
per-person pricing. Cancel anytime.
It is not therapy, legal advice, or emergency help. It is the calm voice
in your pocket when you have to send a hard message and don't want to
sound like the worst version of yourself.
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Subscriptions auto-renew unless canceled at least 24 hours before the
end of the current period. Manage in your Apple ID Settings.
We adhere to the standard Apple Terms of Use:
https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/
As well as our own:
Privacy: https://keepitcivil.app/privacy
Terms: https://keepitcivil.app/terms
updated title, sign up page, new input selections, new metadata
The developer, Nikolas Palchikoff, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
- Contact Info
- User Content
- Identifiers
- Usage Data
Accessibility
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Information
- Seller
- Nikolas Palchikoff
- Size
- 29.7 MB
- Category
- Lifestyle
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 15.0 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 15.0 or later. - iPod touch
Requires iOS 15.0 or later. - Mac
Requires macOS 12.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later. - Apple Vision
Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
4+
- 4+
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- Civil Pro $9.99
- Civil Teams Monthly $199.99
- Civil Families Monthly $39.99
- Copyright
- © 2026 Keep it Civil