are we - the question game
what are we? without the ick.
Only for iPhone
Free · Designed for iPhone. Not verified for macOS.
iPhone
unsituation your situationship. claim your ride-or-die. collect your people. ask anyone in your contacts, answer in private. match = get a receipt. miss = nobody knows.
so… what are we?
— how it works —
send "what are we?" to anyone in your contacts. the best friend. the ride-or-die. the situationship — the text you keep drafting and deleting.
answer in private. twelve possibilities, from all-in to on a break. no one sees anything unless you both pick the same one. zero risk, zero ick.
match -> get the receipt. hang it on your wall. hard launch optional.
miss -> nothing happened. no reveal, no awkward conversation. ask again whenever.
— the twelve answers —
all-in · exclusive · dating · catching feelings · just getting started · hanging out · TBD · partners in crime · ride or die · great friends · ignoring red flags · on a break
— what else—
every we, at a glance. your wall of receipts: the ride-or-dies, the situationship, the one who gets the 2am call.
it remembers so you don't have to. monthly milestones, anniversaries to the day, one-tap celebrations. and when something's been "TBD" for too long, a small nudge to update your status.
ask again, anytime. feelings change. the receipt can too.
— who it's for —
for the ones you're sure about and the ones you aren't. situationships, besties, ride-or-dies, partners, slow burns, the one you've been "hanging out" with since march.
— privacy —
private by default. your answer is never shown unless you both land on it. no profiles, no strangers, no swiping. just the people already in your phone.
new onboarding with a practice round, a redesigned wall, four background colors, and receipts that celebrate their own anniversaries. also: bug fixes, obviously.
The developer, Judy Liu, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
- Contact Info
- Contacts
- User Content
- Identifiers
- Usage Data
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
- Diagnostics
Accessibility
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Information
- Seller
- Judy Liu
- Size
- 32.8 MB
- Category
- Lifestyle
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 15.1 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 15.1 or later. - iPod touch
Requires iOS 15.1 or later. - Mac
Requires macOS 12.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later. - Apple Vision
Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
9+
- 9+
- Infrequent
Mature or Suggestive Themes
- Copyright
- © 2026 Judy Liu