FairShare: Couples Mental Load

Fair Play Family Organizer

Only for iPhone

Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPhone. Not verified for macOS.

iPhone

Now made for iPhone Duo. Not a chore chart, not a bill splitter: FairShare turns the mental load into cards you share, and rebalances it in one calm check-in a week. FairShare — the mental load OS for couples. Not a chore chart, not a bill splitter. You're not crazy. You're carrying a lot. FairShare helps you split the invisible work, so your partner owns whole areas of household life — not just "helps" when asked. Inspired by Eve Rodsky's Fair Play method, FairShare replaces chore charts with over 100 cards. Each card is full ownership: Conceive, Plan, Execute. No more delegating. No more reminding. No more mental load running your life. WHY FAIRSHARE IS DIFFERENT • Card-based, not task-based — own the whole domain, not one-off tasks • AI Brain Dump — say what's on your mind; we turn it into cards • Noticing Score — the only app that measures who notices what needs doing, not just who does it • Visualizer heat map — see the invisible load made visible • A shared docket — recurring cards come back when they're actually due, instead of quietly settling forever • Built for every household — two-parent, same-sex, single, blended, roommates • Weekly check-ins — renegotiate with kindness, not blow-ups • Minimum Standard of Care — no more "but you didn't tell me how" KEY FEATURES AI mental load interceptor Speak or type what's running through your head. The AI turns it into clean cards across Home, Kids, Out, Wild, and Unicorn — and suggests who should own each one. 100+ card deck Every domain covered. Filtered to your household shape during onboarding, so you only see what's relevant to your life. Invisible load visualizer Dashboard heat map of who holds what. Track imbalance and watch it shift over time. Noticing Score The signature number: how much of the household's noticing — the invisible "I'll remember it" work — lands on you. Tap a card to rebalance, then share your Report Card to start the conversation. Weekly Re-deal About 15 minutes a week. Structured, calm prompts to renegotiate cards and update Minimum Standards of Care without the resentment loop. Renegotiation Coach One card not working? Say what's off in your own words. You get a no-blame reframe, three concrete ways to re-deal it, and one question to ask each other out loud. The Unicorn card Your hobbies, friendships, dreams. Protect your own bandwidth — it's a card too. Built for all households Two-parent, same-sex, single-parent + co-parent, blended, roommates, solo, multigenerational. Calendar sync (FairShare+) Two-way iOS Calendar, MSC reminders, fewer dropped balls. Facilitator mode (FairShare+) Invite a certified Fair Play coach for a session with read-only board access. SUBSCRIPTION FairShare Free — up to 20 cards, 5 Brain Dumps per month, one weekly check-in, basic visualizer. FairShare+ unlocks unlimited cards, unlimited AI Brain Dumps, full visualizer, MSC library, calendar sync, partner-share mode, facilitator invite, and priority support. 7-day free trial. One subscription covers your whole household. Pricing shown in app. Subscriptions auto-renew unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the current period. Manage or cancel anytime in Settings. PRIVACY & CARE Your data is yours. Encrypted at rest. We don't sell your data or train AI models on your conversations. GDPR- and CCPA-aligned. Export or delete your data anytime. ABOUT CULI FairShare is made by culi — a small studio building apps that make midlife lighter. culi.app Questions: help@culi.app Privacy Policy: https://tryfairshare.app/privacy-policy/ Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/ Welcome to a lighter load.

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Made for iPhone Duo. • FairShare now fills both screens of iPhone Duo. Folded, it uses the new side toolbar; open, Home, Check-in and the Visualizer settle into calm, centred columns instead of stretching edge to edge. • On the open screen, the Cards tab shows your deck and the card you tapped side by side, so you can read and assign cards without going back and forth. Also in this update: • Tapping a notification while FairShare is in the background no longer closes the app. • Done and Remind me tomorrow on a card reminder now work reliably from the lock screen. • Brain Dump writes your cards in the app's language and always uses your name. • The Brain Dump "Add cards" button is now translated. Thanks for sharing the load with us. Questions? help@culi.app

The developer, Rene Fandida, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .

  • Data Linked to You

    The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:

    • User Content
  • Data Not Linked to You

    The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:

    • Usage Data
    • Diagnostics

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Seller
Rene Fandida
Size
43.3 MB
Category
Lifestyle
Compatibility
Requires iOS 17.0 or later.
  • iPhone
    Requires iOS 17.0 or later.
  • Mac
    Requires macOS 14.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later.
  • Apple Vision
    Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
Languages
English and 11 more
  • English, Czech, Danish, Dutch, French, German, Italian, Norwegian Bokmål, Polish, Portuguese, Spanish, Swedish
Age Rating
4+
In-App Purchases
Yes
  • FairShare+ Monthly $8.99
  • FairShare+ Yearly $59.99
  • FairShare+ Yearly $34.99
  • Gift FairShare+ (1 year) $59.99
  • FairShare+ Lifetime $149.99
Copyright
© Culi 2026