The Coparent App
UK Co-Parenting & Family Court
Only for iPhone
Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPhone. Not verified for macOS.
iPhone
Meet Boundary Mode™ by The Coparent App! Reduce message bombardment, calm communication with AI Mode and protect your time with Quiet Mode. Built for UK co-parenting.
The Coparent App is a UK co-parenting app built for separated parents who need calmer communication, stronger boundaries and organised, court-ready records.
Boundary Mode™ helps reduce message bombardment by limiting each parent to three consecutive normal messages without a reply. AI Mode helps create calmer, more child-focused communication, while Quiet Mode protects your time from non-urgent notifications.
COMMUNICATE WITH STRONGER BOUNDARIES
• Secure co-parent messaging
• Boundary Mode™ message limiting
• AI-assisted message rewrites
• Quiet Mode notification hours
• Emergency communication
• Permanent communication records
BOUNDARY MODE™ : REDUCE MESSAGE BOMBARDMENT
Boundary Mode™ is a distinctive feature of The Coparent App. When enabled, each parent can send up to three consecutive normal messages without receiving a reply. Once the other parent responds, the allowance resets.
It creates a clear boundary around repeated unanswered messaging without blocking necessary communication.
AI MODE: CALMER COMMUNICATION
When emotions run high, writing calmly isn't always easy. AI Mode helps turn inflammatory communication into clearer, more child-focused wording before it is sent.
QUIET MODE: PROTECT YOUR TIME
Co-parenting shouldn't mean being permanently available to your former partner. Quiet Mode lets you set notification hours so non-urgent messages don't constantly interrupt work or personal time. Emergency communication can still get through.
COURT READY CO-PARENTING RECORDS
Keep important parenting information organised instead of scattered across texts, WhatsApp, emails and screenshots.
Keep records of:
• Messages
• Parenting arrangements
• Handovers
• Expenses and receipts
• Photos and documents
• Calendar events
• Voice and video communication
Records can be exported when information needs to be shared with a solicitor, mediator or other relevant professional.
BUILT FOR UK SEPARATED PARENTS
The Coparent App is designed with UK separated families and difficult co-parenting communication in mind.
Parents sometimes search for a “court approved co-parenting app”. There is no universal UK court approval scheme for co-parenting apps, so we don't claim one. Instead, The Coparent App provides structured, court-ready communication records.
SHARED CALENDAR
Keep child arrangements, pick-ups, drop-offs, calls, school events, appointments, activities and holidays together in one shared calendar.
HANDOVERS, EXPENSES & DOCUMENTS
Record handovers with notes and photos, log child-related expenses and receipts, and keep important parenting documents and photographs together.
VOICE AND VIDEO CALLING
The Coparent App includes up to 120 minutes of voice and video calling each month, keeping another part of co-parenting communication within the same structured environment.
ONE FAMILY. ONE CONNECTED SPACE.
A subscription connects the paired family rather than requiring each parent to maintain a separate subscription. Both parents access the shared co-parenting tools within the same connected family account.
PROFESSIONAL ACCESS
Parents can grant verified professionals read-only access where appropriate, making it easier to share relevant information without relying on piles of screenshots and forwarded messages.
DESIGNED TO REDUCE CONFLICT, NOT JUST RECORD IT
Boundary Mode™ addresses message volume.
AI Mode helps address message tone.
Quiet Mode helps manage when non-urgent communication interrupts your life.
Together with calendars, handovers, expenses, documents and court-ready records, they provide one structured place for co-parenting after separation.
The Coparent App. Calmer communication, clearer boundaries and better organised co-parenting.
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Version 3.1 introduces Bridge Mode™, allowing you to manage messages, calendars, payments, files, journals and handovers without requiring the other parent to use the app. It also adds email-based communication, flexible account linking, appearance settings, multilingual support and improvements to reliability, privacy and performance.
The developer, Pittance LTD, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
- Contact Info
- Identifiers
- Usage Data
- Diagnostics
Accessibility
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Information
- Seller
- Pittance LTD
- Size
- 118.1 MB
- Category
- Lifestyle
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 15.1 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 15.1 or later. - iPod touch
Requires iOS 15.1 or later. - Mac
Requires macOS 12.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later. - Apple Vision
Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
English and 5 more
- English, French, German, Italian, Polish, Spanish
- Age Rating
4+
- 4+
- Contains
Messaging and Chat
User-Generated Content
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- The Coparent Family Plan $9.00
- One family history export $19.00
- Copyright
- © 2026 Alistair Fry