PairJar: Stamps & Rewards
Private thanks for your circle
Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPhone. Not verified for macOS.
Notice thoughtful moments, make low-pressure plans, and keep an optional Intimacy Space private with Face ID, widgets, and Apple Watch.
Notice the moment. Keep the spark.
PairJar is a private appreciation app for invite-only circles of adults. Send personal thank-yous, move mutually chosen rewards forward, make low-pressure plans, and optionally open one Intimacy Space for two.
HOW PAIRJAR WORKS
1. Create a private circle and invite the adults you trust.
2. Send appreciation for a thoughtful real-world moment.
3. For a reward, one owner and one chosen contributor approve the exact idea and stamp target.
4. Each eligible non-intimate thank-you from that contributor to that owner adds exactly one stamp while the reward is active and unpaused.
5. Share a plan idea. It becomes a plan only when the named participants agree.
ONE OPTIONAL INTIMACY SPACE
When a circle has exactly two active adults, both people can independently enable Intimacy Space. It offers private sparks, invitations, shared check-ins, and private memories. Either person can decline, pause, or remove something without penalty. Intimacy Space stays separate from rewards and never adds stamps.
Choose Off, Discreet, or Spicy private-spark previews for notifications, the Home Screen widget, and Apple Watch. External actions open PairJar for review and confirmation; nothing sends by itself. Previews never include names, custom text, IDs, or invitation tokens.
THOUGHTFUL BY DESIGN
• See stamp progress directly on each reward
• Start from quick reward and plan ideas with the fields already filled in
• Use Face ID App Lock and hide PairJar in the app switcher
• Open a personal QR shortcut without sending anything automatically
• Decline, revise, pause, or remove rewards and plans without penalty
• Keep ordinary circle activity visible to active circle members
PRIVATE AND PRESSURE-FREE
PairJar has no member leaderboard, fairness score, guilt streak, relationship grade, read receipt, owed balance, or contribution ranking. A stamp advances only its specific reward and has no cash value.
There are no ads, public profiles, contact uploads, or behavioral tracking. PairJar is designed for consenting adults aged 18 or older.
Terms of Use (EULA): https://www.apple.com/legal/internet-services/itunes/dev/stdeula/
Privacy Policy: https://pairjar.vercel.app/privacy
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The developer, Peter Hlavatik, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Linked to You
The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:
- Purchases
- Contact Info
- User Content
- Identifiers
- Sensitive Info
- Diagnostics
Accessibility
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Information
- Seller
- Peter Hlavatik
- Size
- 11 MB
- Category
- Lifestyle
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 18.0 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 18.0 or later. - Mac
Requires macOS 15.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later. - Apple Vision
Requires visionOS 2.0 or later. - Apple Watch
Requires watchOS 11.0 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
18+
- 18+
- This app is rated 18+ with content restrictions.
Some content may be rated higher, and may therefore be restricted and managed by the developer through in-app controls. - In-App Controls
Age Assurance
Frequent
Mature or Suggestive Themes
Sexual Content or Nudity
Contains
Messaging and Chat
User-Generated Content
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- PairJar Plus Monthly $2.99
- PairJar Plus Yearly $19.99
- Copyright
- © 2026 Peter Hlavatik