SEND? Should I Text Or Not
Texting advice for crush & ex
Only for iPhone
Free · In‑App Purchases
iPhone
You've typed it. You've deleted it. You've typed it again.
SEND? tells you whether to send it.
Paste the message, say who it's going to and what's going on, and get a straight answer in seconds: SEND IT or DON'T SEND, one line on why, and exactly how it lands.
WHAT YOU GET
• A verdict. Not a maybe.
• Ten readings — desperation, flirting, confidence, cringe, interest, and then what happens next: whether they reply, whether you get left on read, whether you'll regret it.
• The phrases costing you, quoted from your own message, with what each one actually does.
• The timing call, which is often the real answer.
• Rewrites in up to six styles — confident, direct, casual, mysterious, warm, funny — only the ones that fit your message.
• A share card worth screenshotting.
• Your texting type: a badge you unlock after a few checks, built from counts, never from your words.
• Check straight from Messages: share a screenshot or selected text to SEND?.
ADD THE CONVERSATION
Attach a screenshot and SEND? counts the thread — who sent how many, who spoke last, whether you have been double texting. The picture is read on your phone and never uploaded.
NO ACCOUNT. EVER.
No sign up, no email, no profile. Nothing you type is saved unless you turn on Keep messages (Pro) — and then it stays on your phone only, with an optional Face ID lock, deleted after 7 days. A full analysis is read once by our model provider and held by them briefly, tied to nothing that identifies you.
HONEST, NOT CRUEL
SEND? judges how a message reads. It never claims to know what the other person is thinking, and it will not tell you your relationship is doomed. It is the friend who says "don't send that" and then helps you fix it.
FREE AND PRO
Three checks free, each with the verdict and why. After that, checking a message needs Pro, which unlocks the rest on every message: the exact phrases dragging it down, whether they're likely to reply, the thread counts and every rewrite.
SEND? Pro is an auto-renewing subscription, weekly or yearly. Prices vary by country — in the United States it is $3.99 per week or $24.99 per year. Payment is charged to your Apple Account at confirmation of purchase. It renews automatically unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the end of the period; manage or cancel in your Apple Account settings.
Terms of Use: https://sirekapps.com/terms
Privacy Policy: https://sirekapps.com/privacy
Not medical or relationship advice. Just a second opinion before you hit send.
Ratings & Reviews
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Short texts are on us now. “wyd”, “u up?” and other one-liners get a real verdict and don’t use up a free check.
New here? Tap an example to see how it works.
Plus small fixes and polish.
The developer, Piotr Sirek, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Not Linked to You
The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:
- User Content
- Identifiers
- Usage Data
- Diagnostics
Accessibility
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Information
- Seller
- Piotr Sirek
- Size
- 11.7 MB
- Category
- Lifestyle
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 18.0 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 18.0 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
9+
- 9+
- Infrequent
Profanity or Crude Humor
Mature or Suggestive Themes
Contains
User-Generated Content
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- SEND? Pro Yearly $24.99
- SEND? Pro Weekly $3.99
- Copyright
- © Piotr Sirek 2026