Olively

Name: Olively
Rating: 4.6 (56 reviews)
Author: Yosha Ventures

Attachment Style Translator

Only for iPhone

Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPhone

56 Ratings
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Yosha Ventures
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iPhone

You're not bad at communicating. Your attachment styles just speak different languages. Olively helps you say it right and understand what they really meant. Olively is the translator for your relationship. It helps you and your partner finally understand each other — even when you speak completely different attachment languages. — HOW IT WORKS — TRANSLATE Type what you want to say. Olively rewrites it so your partner can actually hear it — without triggering their defenses. Watch the Trigger Risk drop from red to green before you hit send. Now with explanations that show you why your original might trigger them and why the translation lands better. DECODE Paste what they said. Olively shows you what your anxious (or avoidant) brain heard vs. what they actually meant. Get a suggested response you can copy and send. Stop spiraling. Start understanding. RELATIONSHIP PULSE A quick AI-powered check-in that reads the room. Answer a few questions about what's going on, and Olively gives you a personalized read on the situation — what's happening, why it's triggering you, and exactly what to do next. 7-DAY PROGRAMS Guided journeys to help you grow. Whether you're breaking anxious patterns, learning to reconnect as an avoidant, or building secure habits together — follow a structured program with daily insights tailored to your attachment style. LIBRARY Deep dives into attachment theory. Learn about your style, your partner's triggers, and the science behind why you communicate the way you do. — WHY IT WORKS — Olively is built on attachment theory — the science of how we connect in relationships. Whether you're anxious, avoidant, or somewhere in between, the app adapts to your unique pairing. - Take a quick quiz to find your attachment style - Get translations tailored to your partner's style - See your Trigger Risk and Spiral Risk scores in real-time - Learn why you misread each other — and how to stop — WHO IT'S FOR — - You've been called "too much" or "too needy" - You've been called "emotionally unavailable" or "cold" - You fight about the same things over and over - You want to communicate better but don't know how — WHAT USERS SAY — "I stopped spiraling over every short text. Game changer." "We went from fighting weekly to actually communicating." "I finally understand why he shuts down." Privacy Policy: https://www.olively.app/privacy Terms of Use: https://www.olively.app/terms

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4.6

out of 5

56 Ratings

Great tool for couple communication
Jan 25

Helping save my marriage
My wife and I have opposite attachment styles and have experienced huge ongoing communication issues. This app has helped us nip so many arguments in the bud by helping us communicate in a way that the other understands. Highly recommended for spouses/couples with communication issues.

Developer Response
This made my day, thanks for taking the time to write this review :) I built this app because I was going through the exact same thing almost a year ago (except at the time I didn't have the tools to stop me from pushing my partner away!)
Great tool for couple communication
Jan 25

Helping save my marriage

My wife and I have opposite attachment styles and have experienced huge ongoing communication issues. This app has helped us nip so many arguments in the bud by helping us communicate in a way that the other understands. Highly recommended for spouses/couples with communication issues.
Developer Response Jan 29
This made my day, thanks for taking the time to write this review :) I built this app because I was going through the exact same thing almost a year ago (except at the time I didn't have the tools to stop me from pushing my partner away!)
great app but inconsistent risk ratings
Mar 13

privacy is ideal
i LOVE this app. has helped me understand what my dismissive avoidant partner means by what he says and helps me write messages about my feelings in a way he wouldn’t take it wrong. so useful that i even purchased the subscription. only thing i noticed and should probably be taken a look at is the risk/spiral ratings. for example, i copy and paste a message my partner sends me and it gives me a spiral rating and gives me a response. if i copy and paste that message again, gives me a different spiral rating and a different message to respond. Also, if i put the response the app gave me into translate, for some reason it shows me a high risk rating and gives me a different response to respond to. then i continued to put the new responses the app gives me back into translate and continues to give me high risk ratings and generates new responses. the cycle keeps going. so yea, great app, just this inconsistency should be looked at.
great app but inconsistent risk ratings
Mar 13

privacy is ideal

i LOVE this app. has helped me understand what my dismissive avoidant partner means by what he says and helps me write messages about my feelings in a way he wouldn’t take it wrong. so useful that i even purchased the subscription. only thing i noticed and should probably be taken a look at is the risk/spiral ratings. for example, i copy and paste a message my partner sends me and it gives me a spiral rating and gives me a response. if i copy and paste that message again, gives me a different spiral rating and a different message to respond. Also, if i put the response the app gave me into translate, for some reason it shows me a high risk rating and gives me a different response to respond to. then i continued to put the new responses the app gives me back into translate and continues to give me high risk ratings and generates new responses. the cycle keeps going. so yea, great app, just this inconsistency should be looked at.
Much better after update
Feb 2

ashley_az
Now that I can add context before translating/decoding messages, the app is a lot more useful. Before I would try to decode his message, but the app didn’t take into account what I said before. Really love it now!
Much better after update
Feb 2

ashley_az

Now that I can add context before translating/decoding messages, the app is a lot more useful. Before I would try to decode his message, but the app didn’t take into account what I said before. Really love it now!
Worth every penny.
Jan 25

MrLinco1n
I’m using this app to hopefully salvage my chaotic 3 year marriage. She is anxious and I’m avoidant dismissive, you know how that goes.. the app is great so far, and we seem to be doing better already but only time will tell. Fingers crossed.

Developer Response
Thanks for the review :) And yes... "salvage" is the right word here. It's really hard with an anxious/dismissive avoidant pairing. But it's certainly possible to make it work, and it's admirable of you (as a DA) to take the initiative to work on things.
Worth every penny.
Jan 25

MrLinco1n

I’m using this app to hopefully salvage my chaotic 3 year marriage. She is anxious and I’m avoidant dismissive, you know how that goes.. the app is great so far, and we seem to be doing better already but only time will tell. Fingers crossed.
Developer Response Jan 29
Thanks for the review :) And yes... "salvage" is the right word here. It's really hard with an anxious/dismissive avoidant pairing. But it's certainly possible to make it work, and it's admirable of you (as a DA) to take the initiative to work on things.

- Faster results: Translate and Decode results now stream in live — each section appears the moment it's ready instead of waiting for everything to load at once. - Relationship details: You can now edit your relationship context from Settings without the skip button showing up.

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Mar 12

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