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3rder is a dating app for open-minded couples and singles to meetup with each other.

Do you want to find some local people to explore a new-form of dating? 3rder is definitely the best choice for you! 3rder offers a serious and anonymous community for all users to ensure that every user can really enjoy their time here. It's a professional social application that connects like-minded people for both relationship and friendship. We strictly review each user's profile and exclude fake accounts from the system. We promise that your private information is safe with us and will not be revealed to any third party. All your personal information, such as your email address, photos, address, is secured at our server and kept private.

3rder is one of the top dating apps for friendships and relationships, on which you can easily start your unusual lifestyle. Now 3rder's user base is growing massively. Currently, it has over 2 million users, which can provide you with more possibilities of exploring dating beyond the norm. Before signing up on 3rder, please make sure you are an adult over the age of 18. In addition, please make sure that you have read our user policy carefully and if any rules are broken, your account is likely to be prohibited. Now you can start your dating journey.

There are some top cities where 3rder are most welcomed:
United States: San Diego, Atlanta, Chicago, Michigan, New York City (NYC), Los Angeles, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Washington DC
Australia: New Zealand, Sydney, Melbourne, Western Australia, Queensland
Canada: Toronto, Ontario, Quebec, Vancouver, BC, Alberta, Edmonton
United Kingdom (UK): England, Ireland, Scotland, London, Dublin.

Subscription options for VIP membership service:

1-month subscription with auto renewal: $14.99
3-month subscription with auto renewal: $34.99
6-month subscription: $49.99

**Prices are in U.S. dollars, may vary in countries other than the U.S. and are subject to change without notice.

Please note that with all subscriptions:

– No cancellation of the current subscription is allowed during active subscription period.
– Payment will be charged to iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase
– Subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period
– Account will be charged for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current period, and identify the cost of the renewal
– Subscriptions may be managed by you and auto-renewal may be turned off by going to your Account Settings after purchase
– Any unused portion of a free trial period, if offered, will be forfeited when the user purchases a subscription to that publication, where applicable

See our Terms of Use Agreement below for more information on our cancellation policy.

Privacy Policy:

Terms of use:

Special notice for using 3rder:
- No sexually explicit, sensitive and offensive contents
- No personal contact information in your photos and anywhere else in 3rder app.
- No advertisement or solicitaiton

What’s New

Version 4.5.5

New functions online:
1. Add the function of settingverified MSG only. 3rder members can filter MSG from unverified members.
2. Optimize network detection on chat module.
3. Optimize the VIP purchase page.

Ratings and Reviews

3.9 out of 5
9.8K Ratings

9.8K Ratings

Malliyah E ,

Despite some little defects, it’s still good

I always wanted to try some online dating app, since the virus is going out there and it’s not so safe to go outside and have some fun. Been using this hook up app for like 3 months, from what I’ve seen, most features are very nice here. You get more options here than other dating apps besides from casual sex. Threesome is also a nice option if you want it. I can see many swingers couples. But even if you are not a swingers, finding some fwb for free hookup won’t be an issue here as well. It basically depends on each individuals. I’ll just be satisfied to get some real people to talk to and kill time when I’m bored. However, the only trouble is, if you are looking for someone for the rest of your life, that might not be so easy. At least not as easy as tinder or bumble and other dating apps like these two. 3rder is more for hookup. Maybe not so good for dating. Of course, if you want hookup only, this is definitely one of the best choice out there I think??? Haven’t tried much dating apps. But so far, from my own experience, it’s been nice in helping find some new friends to talk to. But did encountered one or two fakes, not as many as they say. Just be careful. Actually, they are pretty easy to spot. For me, it haven’t cause much of a trouble. So, only based on the features and designs, I would still rate this swingers app 5 star, cauz I really did find what I want here... So I’ll say it’s worth a try...

Rutié ,

Over all not bad…

I really dig the app and everything it offers. It does more than I expect. I used to think this is just a swingers hookup app for the people who are into threesome or something like that, but other than threesome, you can actually get a lot more from it. You get to meet these all sorts of funny people and talk to them. Personally I don't care much about threesome or casual sex and things like that, but I do want to meet new people around my neighborhood. I can say this hookup app is indeed a pretty nice choice for those who are in a new place all by themselves. People are pretty active here. More active than most other dating apps and sites I tried before, maybe even tinder. Your message is replied very quick and plenty of online users. And its free to send messages. However, the only trouble is you cant view people who you liked. This is really a bummer. Sometimes we don't usually get matched with the people we liked. It would be nice if we can view people we liked and go back to message them. This is supposed to be a basic like many other dating apps. I think this feature might be missed by the developers. I suggest to add it in the next version. I believe Im not the only one that has the same question. Other than this, everything else works properly as it should. But also would be nicer to grow bigger so that we can meet people easier and faster. Thats all I want to say.

Rightly: app ,

Would recommend 80% of it

Talked with some really cool people on this hookup app. Indeed a new way to meet swingers friends nsa. Like a whole new adventure for me. From what Ive seen, it’s a lovely 3some dating app that allows you to flirt anonymously with some random strangers. Also very promising for swingers who want to have a threesome or free hookup with someone who want nothing but some casual hookup thing. However, the only thing is that it doesnt get much of a large user base. Seems younger compared with tinder or the 3fun dating site. Shouldve got many more users, so we can find local people easier. Sometimes you would run out of people around you and then you'd have to come back later. This is a major issue. Other than this, I think everything else is working as it should. That's why I say this dating app deserves to be found by more people. It's surely a nice platform for the swingers to get together and have some fun. The marketing team should do better job at publicity and advertising maybe. Just a suggestion. So I would recommend this dating site as a real user with some really positive experiences despite this minor object. Oh, also would be nice to offer some free trial or just make it free to get more users. Before you have enough user base, you should consider making money as the secondary objective, cauz with enough users, youll definitely get much bigger profit. This is my suggestion.


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App Privacy

The developer, 3rder Limited, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy.

Data Linked to You

The following data may be collected and linked to your identity:

  • Location
  • Contact Info
  • User Content

Data Not Linked to You

The following data may be collected but it is not linked to your identity:

  • User Content
  • Identifiers

Privacy practices may vary, for example, based on the features you use or your age. Learn More


  • Family Sharing

    With Family Sharing set up, up to six family members can use this app.

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