I listen to a totally different kind of podcast all the time and I found Dr John Deloney’s about 8 months ago, and I have been listening to it since! The advice that he gives, the kindness, his humor, and temperament, and above all his trust in God and Jesus - lead me to trust that if he says that this app helps marriages that I believe this app helps marriages! At first, my husband was grumpy, didn’t wanna do it , but when he saw me setting it up, he said he’d join! It’s been about 10 days. I do see a difference ALREADY. It also makes you conscious of what your partner goes out of their way to do for you that you might not have noticed before. Whether it was happening the whole time or new habits picked up. Micro habits are a great way to feel appreciated and appreciate your spouse. At 1st I thought I don’t know if this is gonna make a difference at all , but I trusted and I can already see some improvements and huge potential. Dr. John- (😂😂) what does that say about where our commutation has been in our marriage if micro steps have affected us this much in 10 days ? Keep doing what you do. You’re a huge blessing to a huge amount of people. Also thanks to the team and The Deloneys , behind Dr. John and all it takes to make everything happen the way it does. With love ❤️ and hope for the next right step, Sacha Sullivan

Look, the average couple doesn’t need Dr. John Delony slapping a $5.99/month paywall on basic daily prompts and conversation starters. This app is just repackaged “show up small” advice—stuff that’s already free everywhere else—locked behind a subscription meter because Lampo can’t resist nickel-and-diming folks who are trying to fix their marriages.Why pay for recycled questions and half-baked weekly rundowns when the Gottman Card Decks app gives you over 1,000 research-backed flashcards, intimacy builders, date ideas, and deep conversation prompts completely free? No ads, no subs, no “premium” upsell nonsense. It’s from actual relationship scientists who’ve studied thousands of couples, not a media personality turning his persona into a recurring revenue stream.This feels like classic Ramsey-esque grift: promise transformation in tiny daily moments, then charge you monthly for what should be common-sense tools anyone can access without forking over latte money every month. One spouse using it? Great gimmick, but still not worth the ongoing ding to your wallet when free alternatives accomplish the exact same thing—better, with no limits.Save your cash. Delete this and grab Gottman Card Decks instead. Your marriage deserves real help, not another meter on someone’s brand.If you’re reading this before downloading—don’t waste your time or money. There are better (and free) ways to reconnect without funding the next Ramsey empire expansion.

Honestly, there’s a lot good with the app. My wife and I have been using it a while now and have enjoyed it. Lots of good prompts and ideas and we have had some good conversations.However, for a couples app it seems absolutely silly that it is not integrated more. On the weekly rundowns it seems dumb that we have to put our wants and needs into each other’s phones, why can’t we do that on our own and it populate on the other users end. Also, why can’t we see what each other wrote about for the daily activities. It also doesn’t seem to truly take into account the other users daily activities because we have had repeat ones (my wife had a conversation starter 3 days after I did with the same prompts) that seems like an easy fix. I know that not everyone is also into AI, but this seems like a place where it could be added to take the inputs and suggest more ideas. Finally, I think there should be more activities at least 1 for a 365 day year. Right now there are about half that many.It’s okay, but since it’s a paid app I expect more.

In the modern world where doom scrolling for 10 hours a day is normal it’s no wonder we are so drained and disconnected from...everything! This app is a wonderful motivation to be more thoughtful and intentional to connect with your spouse. The challenges are exciting and easy: served to you in attainable, bite sized portions that aren’t overwhelming. My husband and I are both loving how you can change your focus area and activity for the day and truly appreciate the push notifications you can schedule to remind you of the day’s challenge (which we need!). In this season of life with young kids, the biggest win at the end of the day is having these great conversations on a daily basis now. The app is wonderful to help get these conversations flowing instead of using what little energy we have left at 10pm to doom scroll.