Me Then You
Their sizes, dates, dislikes
Free · In‑App Purchases · Designed for iPad. Not verified for macOS.
New: Pick together. Swipe on baby names, dog names, date nights and takeaways on your own, then swap and see what you both kept.
The things you are supposed to know about your partner and never quite do. Their sizes when you are stood in a shop. Their mum's birthday, before it has gone. What they cannot eat, before you book.
You each fill in a page about yourself. They fill in theirs. Then you swap, and you both stop guessing. Every line is in their own words, so nothing is invented and nothing is assumed.
WHAT YOU END UP HOLDING
Sizes, from shoes to rings, so nothing has to go back.
The dates that matter, with enough warning to do something about them.
What they cannot eat, and where they would actually like to go.
What they have been hinting at since March.
Who wears them out, and what is best not brought up.
PICK TOGETHER
Swipe on your own phone, keep or pass, then swap and see what you both kept.
Takeaway tonight, dog names, date nights, holidays, and baby names. Baby names stays off until you switch it on, and suggests real names made from both of yours, each with a reason. Nothing you pass on ever leaves your phone.
THE QUIZ
Five questions, four answers, one of them theirs. You take one about them, they take one about you, and you find out who was paying attention.
THINGS YOU BOTH WANT TO DO
A shared list. Tick something off and it becomes a memory you can both write on, with a photograph if you took one.
THE SWAP
Hold the two phones together and they find each other, the way AirDrop does.
They are asked by name, and nothing moves until they say yes. It goes straight from one phone to the other, encrypted, without touching the internet.
WHAT IT DOES NOT DO
There is no account and no server. Everything stays on your two phones. No analytics, no tracking, no adverts, and no subscription: one payment opens everything, and two of the packs and the takeaway deck are free before you spend anything.
Both of you need an iPhone or iPad.
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New: Pick together.
You each swipe on your own phone. Keep it or pass. Then swap, and see what you both kept.
Five decks to start: takeaway tonight, dog names, date nights, holidays, and baby names. Takeaway is free.
Baby names is off until you switch it on, and only on your phone. Choose girls, boys or either, where the names come from, and how common you want them. It also suggests real names made from both of yours, each with a reason: a form of one of your names, a name hiding inside the other, or one that shares a meaning.
Keep a saved list of names you already love. Anything you add reaches your partner as just another name to swipe, with nothing to say it came from you.
When you both keep the same thing, you will know. Put your shortlist in order, and hear each name read out with your surname.
Nothing you pass on ever leaves your phone.
The developer, Michael Katasi, indicated that the app’s privacy practices may include handling of data as described below. For more information, see the developer’s privacy policy .
Data Not Collected
The developer does not collect any data from this app.
Accessibility
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Information
- Seller
- Michael Katasi
- Size
- 5.4 MB
- Category
- Lifestyle
- Compatibility
Requires iOS 17.0 or later.
- iPhone
Requires iOS 17.0 or later. - iPad
Requires iPadOS 17.0 or later. - Mac
Requires macOS 14.0 or later and a Mac with Apple M1 chip or later. - Apple Vision
Requires visionOS 1.0 or later.
- iPhone
- Languages
- English
- Age Rating
13+
- 13+
- Infrequent
Mature or Suggestive Themes
Alcohol, Tobacco, Drug Use or References
- In-App Purchases
Yes
- Everything unlocked $9.99
- Copyright
- © 2026 Michael Katasi

