While Collective is still a fairly new app, I really like it and I’m excited to see how it evolves. There’s already a growing sense of community, and I’ve made a few real connections—which is more than I can say for most queer social apps.Like many spaces, there’s a fair amount of shirtless thirst traps on the feed, which can feel a bit repetitive. But beyond that, there’s a solid group of people genuinely looking for friendship, creativity, and community.The foundation is strong, and with time and thoughtful updates, Collective has the potential to become something really special for queer folks seeking connection beyond the algorithm.

The obvious best part of this app is that it is being developed by and for queer people. Period. But what impresses me the most is the use of modern and fresh social networking tools built into the app’s interface. Features like photo folders, truly hidden like and follower count, a badge on unedited photos, etc. have made sharing content so much more enjoyable for me and honestly I wish other apps (instagram) would take notes. The app also makes it incredibly easy and enjoyable to find NEW people to follow and connect with. There is even a feature to connect with people in ur location without it being creepy and sexual lol. I feel like it is reminiscent of the early tumblr days when the gays were able to curate artistic vision boards while also connecting with like minded queer people whether they’re near or far. Loveee it.

This app fixes so many of the common problems of dating in the digital age. With most dating apps, once you swipe left or right, that decision is final. There’s no going back. That person is permanently written off from having a chance with you and vice versa. All in a split second decision. Upping your game on Instagram or Twitter can allow for people to see all of you, but it’s a popularity contest and a lot of times a follower count can be a barrier to connection with someone who you might be a match with. Collective fixes all of that. You have your profile. You can follow someone. And indicate your interest in them and change it at any time. And no one’s follower count is displayed. I really do believe that this is not only the future of dating for the queer community but the future of online dating in general.

To some degree, those of us who are queer know what it is like to feel ostracized. Like any human being, we long for human connection and acceptance. Unfortunately, we are used to being shunned on micro and macro levels which negatively affects how we see ourselves, and others. It affects our ability to function optimally physiologically, cognitively, and emotionally. Consequently it determines how well we treat ourselves, how we love those closest to us, and how we contribute to our communities and the world.So, it is absolutely important that we are included and accepted; it is imperative that we feel safe and unafraid of being ourselves in public and private spaces. Though this is not always the case, The Collective provides us with a safe space to connect, explore, and ultimately grow together as we are meant to.